Understanding pedophile hysteria in terms of family dynamics

 What is pedophile hysteria? Simply put, the societal hatred of pedophiles. What do most people think when they hear that term? Some kid in a hoodie running from a cop car. Nope, that pedophile is a CRIMINAL. Most pedophiles never violate the law, with merit to both their profile and, by extension, traits of developmental delay/disability. 3 out of 4 pedophiles have never abused a child sexually, and parent tallies at the Virtuous Pedophiles board show that the majority of parent/pedophiles represented at the VP forums hide themselves, meaning not stand out, meaning not abuse children, in a presumed manner (in a gloss over glance, but based on roughly 3 years of parent observation at VP - I observe parents wherever I go, for my own safety). However, the most oppressed pedophiles are not at VP, but are children - the most oppressed people on earth...Two equally oppressed identities intersecting. Sometimes, the answer really is simple, but in an empathetic way. Pedophile rights is a mother's rights issues, as mothers get it, most of the time.

Disclosure of one's pedophilic condition to parents as a minor child causes a major change in family dynamics, many times for the positive, and sometimes for the negative (particularly when the condition is "found out"). In my case, I was fortunate - both parents understood. But, I find that women in general seem to understand the pedophilic condition more than men. It isn't a warm and fuzzy form of acceptance, but a kind of cold and dismissive way of understanding the condition. It is the attitude of "Yeah, I get it. You're attracted to 12-year-old girls. I don't care what you fantasize about. I just don't want to hear about it". With my mother, I can talk to her about anything regarding my condition, and she won't punish me for it. She simply listens and validate, in a way that encourages more conversation and disclosure with mom...She has become more in favor of gentle parenting and also giving children their rights, as was my father the years before he passed away. It is a shocking disclosure to a parent, but on a low level, where they mourn at a subconscious level, and know what to do.

Pedophile hatred is patriarchy, meaning male interference lined up against mother and child, as a means to try and tell women/mothers that an issue can be easily be treated with simply listening and empathy needs a complex behavior plan full of restraints and aversive procedures. It is men telling women how to raise a child with special needs "the right way", detailing how to "righteously non-listen" to the pedophile as a separate concept, and "listen to the individual instead", and gaslight the women with fear. Most women I know are understanding of non-offending pedophiles, including even outspoken survivors of child abuse, but simply cannot voice these opinions publicly, and have other topics to focus on (my blog is probably just one topic on their agenda, even if I might overstate my fame). Most people agree with me, it seems, to some level (I polled an airborne tape that was attached to me - asked a whole bunch of people of various social stripes). The stigma doesn't come from "trauma" or "survivors", but from religious stigma - antisocial "religion"/"sexual shame". 

What does pedophile hysteria look like, in sum? A father hovering over his son and punishing him, ordering him around, and laying next to him, and also throwing out his laptop which had images of girls as young as 6 in swimsuits, to get him to stop fantasizing, calling all lust towards children "the sin of the Lord". Mom is enlisted as well - preacher's home, with dad using "domestic discipline" of a physical kind, invoking that man is the head of woman falsely as a means to enlist his wife to abuse children. He doesn't believe on the bottom (always did, even if he didn't), but on the top he maintains that appearance. 8 ball. Antisocial "hover"/"pest"/"punish"...Yep, that's what it looks like. 

Just a few usual suspects, fanning the flames. We at children's rights have our haters too, though not as bad as other places. Go over to parent-land, and it's real bad. Lock your car doors, and chain your purse (if you are a female pedophile). It's the ghetto, and they hate their children there as well. Foursquare is where it all started - the foursquare of hate churches, and all their replicas on the dark web.