Pedophilic children: How to bring up your pedophilic child

Many parents have a fear of their child meeting a pedophile. This is a common fear amongst parents. However, nothing prepares parents for when their child is a pedophile. Children can be pedophiles. and they are the most oppressed of all children. 

What is pedophilia? A pedophile is not an anger packet attached to a dirty old man. A pedophile instead has a form of immature autism where the individual with autism specializes in children and children's issues. Autism means "one with". Pedophilia is a form of autism that is "one with" children, meaning that pedophilia is an affinity attraction to children. Most pedophiles have child smarts, meaning usually that they are rule-oriented individuals with autism, but somehow think the rules don't apply to children. 

Most pedophiles become aware of their pedophilia in the teenage years, and sometimes even earlier. The diagnostic criteria for pedophilic disorder requires the mental health client to be at least 16 before being officially diagnosed with pedophilia. 

Pedophilia is simply a sexual curiosity about the child form, meaning a pedophilic child is sexually curious about much younger children. Most pedophilic offenses simply involve wanting to see things, thus undressing a child in order to sneak a peek as to what the child is covering up with their clothing. There exist children's books educating children about body parts as a form of sex education. A pedophilic child definitely can use such a book to understand fully what children's body parts look like. 

Most pedophiles can go without getting what they want fully. The Greek root word denoting lust is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers here not to ordinary sexual desire, but to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. It is okay to look the look, and think the think later, but if you find yourself doing the deed, then you shouldn't have even approached the child. "Approach" here refers to taking the first steps towards the sexual abuse of a child. Most pedophiles approach a child by way of zig-zag grooming, meaning they phish for personal information from a child in a way that evades the parents. I myself approached a much younger child and asked for her name and number, and all that was needed to stop me was a child who knew to not give personal information to strangers. 

Most pedophiles are the last people to abuse a child in any way. Most child sexual abuse is not committed by a pedophile, but by an adult who is a sexually entitled opportunist. Most sexual abusers of children are confronted with a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to sexually abuse a child. The reason why they abuse children sexually is that they repress their secondary sexual desires towards children, with the desires then coming out sideways onto a child, like a ton of bricks. Usually, the child is suspecting, but nobody believes the child until it is too late.

When your child discloses pedophilia to you, hold them close, and reassure them of your presence. Let them get that burden unloaded onto you, like unloading baggage, with parents being the baggage carousel. Listening to a pedophile is like listening to a child's heartbeat. The antisocial way of disclosing pedophilia isn't a tearful disclosure, but an impulsive disclosure. Some of us as pedophiles have a history of bipolar mania, and we need to tone down that royalty high. Many cases of pedophilia are associated with mood disorders, usually major depression. Most pedophiles who are found out are mostly a danger to themselves, not children. 

Most pedophiles have a history of being abused by parents, meaning their own parents. Most pedophiles were given a sexual shaming trauma. Parents usually can tell that their child is a pedophile by where the child's eyes go. Most parents shun the topic, and punish their children for sexual fantasies about much younger children. Anything that offends the child is child abuse under biblical law, including if the child is attracted to much younger children. Pedophiles have a collective parent trauma of the sexual shaming sort. I myself was accepted by a parent, namely my mother, and now she is my accountability partner. I can talk to my mother about anything, including my pedophilia. Now I have the disorder, but it is in remission, meaning I am no longer grooming young girls in a zig-zag fashion. Pedophilia is only a disorder if it interferes with your daily functioning, or else is acted upon - and I acted on it through zig-zag grooming. Most pedophiles simply have situational depression that can't otherwise be classified, and so we call it pedophilic disorder. Once the desires are both tamed and accepted, the pedophilic disorder goes into remission.

Some pedophiles are antisocial in the presentation of their disorder. Some of us seeming were born as proud as can be, meaning we had bipolar mania. Pedophilia, when co-morbid with bipolar mania, can manifest itself as a "love" addiction. I was in "love" with "love", not knowing what love is. I needed religion badly, while being afraid of being led down a pro-spanking path with religion. I did most of the Twelve Steps to keep my pedophilia at bay, meaning I first admitted that I was powerless over a co-morbid parent trauma, and then turned myself into God and His Laws, which also helped me with my pedophilia. With my pedophilia, I took a fearless moral inventory, and made amends whenever possible. You can work the Twelve Steps while only being in individual therapy, with therapy simply being a listening environment where you find your own answers. Take what you need from the Twelve Steps, and leave the rest. I myself also take mood stabilizers, and that alone brought me to a place where I could face my pedophilic desires head on. I was infatuated with child after child after child, like train cars, with everyone around me hoping for the caboose. A mentally disabled abuser like I was is the hardest of all offenders to rehabilitate, as their whole identity revolves around a specific child, meaning an autistic fixation surrounding a specific child. They want to get to know the child, but don't know the boundaries. Some pedophiles are career rapists, but they are rare. He may be a pedophile, but is he a rapist? That question is the new children's rights standard. 

Most pedophilic children are pro-social in the presentation of their disorder, meaning they are the last people to sexually abuse a child. Most pedophiles are depressed about the realization that they are a pedophile, in the most anguished of ways. Usually, pedophilic disorder involves low self-esteem, meaning they are on the depressive end of the mental health spectrum. The key for most pedophiles is self-acceptance. Self-acceptance simply means liking one thing about yourself. I myself like my sexual fantasies about children, and so should any pedophile. I just can't insist on others liking me. People are free to dislike pedophiles, but only after they hear us out as to who we really are. I personally wish that no newborn baby grow up to be a pedophile. 

The best way to accept pedophilia in your child is to listen and validate when they disclose their pedophilia, and give them a lengthy sex education based off of the abstinence model. Most people who accept a pedophile see them as a kid, in a way that involves sorrow and mourning for the child who becomes a pedophile. It is okay to pity a pedophile, but one should know that the pedophile might see the issue differently, especially when they come to an accepting place about themselves. Most trauma survivors are accepting of me being a pedophile, and they see me as a kid attracted to younger children, all the while pitying me at the same time. 

The depraved and entitled parents who punish their pedophilic child for their desires will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!