Parenting your pedophilic child: Why to accept your pedophilic child

Most parents fear their child being sexually abused by a pedophile. This is a valid and real concern for parents. However, few parents ever factor in the chance of their child developing pedophilia as a mental illness. However, the fact of the matter is that children can be diagnosed with pedophilia by age 16, and can be identified earlier in retrospect.

It is a myth that pedophiles are the ones sexually abusing children, with every single adult posing some risk of sexually abusing a child. However, pedophiles are the last of all adults to sexually abused a child. It is a myth that a pedophile is an anger packet directed towards a child. A pedophile is a person who has a primary or exclusive sexual preference for children under age 14. A pedophile is someone with autism who has child smarts, with these "child smarts" being reflected in the age-oriented sexual preferences of the pedophile.

The idea behind proper pedophile treatment is knowing that the word "pedophile" is not a medical excuse for abuse of any kind. The reason not to use that word is because that word is taken - by individuals who sexually prefer children. "Pedophile" is a celebratory term, meaning should not be an abuser's label. 

What should parents do when they see signs of pedophilia in a child? The first step is to hold space for your child to disclose their pedophilia. Once they do, listen and validate, like listening to someone's heart beat. Anyone familiar with listening to trauma will recognize this advice immediately. Compassionate empathy is what pedophiles need from their parents. 

Pedophilia is simply a sexual curiosity about children. This means that children need to learn about the child's body. There are certain body books that inform children about proper body parts and what to call them. I myself found out what a nude child looked like at a search party that was extended to me (this platform is under investigation). I myself am guilty of sexual harassment motivated by sexual curiosity about children, meaning I just wanted to see things.

Most pedophiles have a history of being sexually shamed by parents. This makes parent trauma being the collective trauma of all pedophiles. I filter the parents by the entitlement in their tone of voice. Most pedophiles are atheist, and blame all Christians for their abuse. Atheism is something that comes from a form of parent trauma coming from parental abuse. My abusive childhood is steeped in pro-parent indoctrination from pro-parent parents who identified to me in a court of law. The idea behind improving your pedophilic child's outcomes is to be there for them. That was the main thing my parents did right, amongst other memories that were either warm or cold in nature. My parents were simply worried sick about me, and even questioned their own parenting in a way that I like. I am now an ex-atheist, because that was my condition when being abused within the law - I need to know God is there to exact vengeance on my parent abuser.

The Greek root word denoting lust in the Bible is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but instead refers to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement refers to, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. It is okay to look the look, and even think the think about a child, but there is a big difference between thinking the think and doing the deed. These were the values that my abusive liberal parents instilled in me, meaning they tried to stop me from approaching a children that I targeted, out of worry and not prejudice. The worst I got from my parents on that issue was denial that I had a mental illness called pedophilia.

Pedophilia is a valid mental health disorder, meaning not an abuser's label. Most child rapists are not pedophiles, but instead are opportunistic offenders, with any old adult being at some risk for sexually abusing a child. Most adults ignore that side of them, and this is how sexual abuse starts - with the repressed sexual desires coming out sideways, like a ton of bricks. Pedophiles experience things on the surface, and know where child sexual abuse starts - like the back of their hand. I myself can look into a house, and see where I might be alone with a child, and avoid such temptation like a bat out of Hell. I even tar and char my advances towards children with images of Hell. Most pedophiles come to these conclusions on their own, whereas I needed to be taught. Pedophile self-acceptance is not about self-love, but instead is acknowledging a personal flaw. It technically is a sexual orientation, but a flawed one nonetheless, making it a mental disorder.

I myself am a flawed pedophilic adult, and am deserving of absolutely nothing. However,  I can defend a fellow pedophile as I would myself, and most pedophiles do not have the sin count that I have. Many of them have a squeaky clean reputation unheard of in most adults. I sure do like myself, fantasies and all, even while without insisting that others like them or me. I just don't insist on good appearances, and don't think of myself as being a good person. I instead know that I am a flawed person. I am non-deserving of appearances, and deserve absolutely nothing in relation to children. I just am allowed fantasies, and also marvel at how far I have come in terms of pedophile progress. When answering what I like most about myself, I would say that my child fantasies are what I lean on in order to cope. I simply needed to avoid children, not out of self-hatred, but instead to protect children from my sexual impulses, as I did not know the boundaries until I took a leave of absence in order to purge it all. My mother must worry sick about me even today, just as she was then. I myself have a history of bipolar mania, and I needed some religion in order to ground myself - and grounded is all that will ever come of it. I myself have a sin count a mile long in relation to children. Most pedophiles simply have desires to accept. I myself have a sin count that I need to put to rest. Don't we all as adults have an entitlement problem in relation to children, in some way, in some form? I sure have that sense of entitlement centered at the penile ductile level, where it will stay until my dying day. My main entitlement problem was sexual want directed towards a child, in the form of flaming desire for romantic closeness to children, with romantic passions being a moral crime under my Christian faith. I myself am now under investigation for a rape, when all that happened was sexual harassment. I actually did the deed by way of antisocial "rough-play". She only told because she was told to by her parents, and everyone assumed she meant "rape" when she is a good friend of mine, and will always have a special bond with her. She told the truth, but lies came because of it, with the police acting on a previous false report from the anti-children's rights syndicate. I myself stand by my cousin, as all this scrutiny must be exacting a toll on her. I omit her name for her own privacy's sake. I am looking forward to cooperating with the investigation as it continues, and open my life to the public. I cooperate with the police as per my Christian faith, with me subjecting myself to the law of the land as I would any authority.

The depraved and entitled parents who sexually shame their pedophilic children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared for Satan and his accomplicesl! Repent!