Adult attraction to children: Individual responsibility for preventing child sexual abuse

Many adults today, when thinking about preventing child sexual abuse, think in terms of collective responsibility. Collective responsibility is how an organization apologizes for leaving in a sexually entitled adult. This, to me, holds adults to a much lower standard. All adults are guilty in relation to children for the sexual abuse of children, as any old adult can commit a sexual offense against a child under the right/wrong conditions. 

Any old adult is capable of child sexual abuse under the right/wrong conditions. That does not mean every adult has a date with their demise, but that child sexual abuse usually comes in the form of a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. The main risk factor for an adult going rogue and becoming a predator is not masturbating to sexual thoughts of children under age 18. If you swear up and down "no under 18 fantasies", you are merely showing your risk towards children.

In Israel, there exists a simple phrase that shows your innocence right away - "pedophile going". In that case, the pedophile going is a father's sexual thoughts about his children. The ideal disclosure comes in what we call a "joke pedophile", meaning it should come out as a laughable joke. If you instead are skittish around the concept of sexual attraction to children, you might be a threat. The Christian version of this concept is righteous masturbation, where parents and other adults masturbate in order to stay out of trouble, with a clinical celebratory disclosure sometimes being necessary in order for adults to vent about burdensome desires.

The Greek root word denoting lust is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but instead sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. It is okay to look the look, and then think the think later, but if you find yourself doing the deed with a child, you shouldn't have even approached her. "Doing the deed" includes all flirting with or propositioning minor children, or else touching any part of a child's body with sexual intent. Even if the child is right there to whistle at, the whistle carries and counts as an approach. The only way to avoid approaching children is to righteously masturbate to sexual thoughts of children.

The sexual dynamic of the family home comes in the form of an uneven criss-cross. Fathers and daughters usually have a mutually unrequited sexual dynamic, with sons instead have a dead end attraction - towards mom. Most mothers can see this sexual dynamic clearly, and know to protect her children from the sexual entitlement of fathers. Even in Lev. 18:17, daughters were mentioned as next to mothers to remind fathers of where daughters should be until adulthood - next to mom. Even in the story of Lot, Lot was the one slew by God, and thus whenever the father doesn't say "no" to his daughter's sexual advances, he is responsible for not saying "no" beforehand.

There is no reason to fear the biblical context, as the legal context of the Bible clearly is pro-child and anti-sexual abuse. Even in the case of biblical pedophiles, the pedophile was the center of the parenting community, and gave parenting advice to parents. When a parent became abusive, the pedophile took in the child, once the child chose to go with pedophiles instead of parents. This pedophile and child relationship was one of Christian love and charity, meaning expecting absolutely nothing in return from children. The barter setup was a myth in the Ancient Jewish culture. The closest the pedophile got to a child was to lactate when the child was milk-hungry. Most sexual abusers of children rely on just one biblical fact, and use that one fact to justify their sexual abuse of children.

Most pedophiles are the last people to sexually abuse a child. Most of us pedophiles who do have a sin list in relation to children never internalized the boundaries between children and adults. I myself approached young girls by following them around in public places, with the approach becoming a sexual offense proper when the sexual entitlement hit the child. Most child sexual abuse comes in the form of an opportunistic crime, not a career offense. An abuser pedophile instead struggles with social skills in a way that leads to the sexual abuse of a child. When you hear of an offender following a child like a sick puppy, out in the open, perhaps hiding his face, think pedophile of the wrong kind. I was that pedophile once, and I have a sin list in relation to children that is a mile long. 

Most pedophiles who turn abuser commit their abuse as I did - as a child as an adult. A pedophile simply has an autistic specialty in children, with their age-oriented sexual preferences corresponding with their specialty in children. A pedophile is one with children, with the whole world of a pedophile surrounding children. Most people only think of the children some of the time, with a pedophile being an adult who thinks of the children all the time. A pedophile is a survivor to the core, even if they don't think of themselves as a survivor, because pedophiles don't have anything to distract themselves from their trauma - not even adult anger towards children. Most people in America have trauma to admit to, but instead, they focus on their parent anger towards children. A pedophile usually has that adult anger ventricle missing, meaning they have a form of autism where they only feel angry in relation to children when protecting them from actual threats that clearly exist.

I myself am under investigation, and so I follow police advice and open my life up to the public. I was falsely accused of committing rape against my cousin. That incident did nor happen, but there is always a coin of truth to a false allegation. I committed sexual harassment against my cousin, meaning flirting in an antisocial fashion. My cousin clearly said that my approach was not welcome. Sexual harassment is a summary offense here in Pennsylvania, meaning a simple traffic stop. They could have interrogated me at my doorstep, but the police wanted a rape for their own sexual desires. Those police are now long gone, with the new police counting me as a victim of a false allegation. I stick up for my little cousin, and know like hell that she was not raped by anyone in the family except her father. He made me sign a contract promising not to misuse his daughter's name. Any father that virtue-signals like that has got to have something to hide. Most parents are flawed in the reverse of that - they don't believe the child. 

Ultimately, children are the barometers of threat in adults. When an adult in question is a sexual threat to children, children refuse to go with the adult. Most of us who are pedophiles get objectifying attention from children, meaning they see me as a human ragdoll to drag around and play games with. That is how I know that perhaps I have earned my keep in relation to children, but I don't say for sure. Most threatening adults are scary in the eyes of children. Most children are attracted to me because they know that nothing is ever going to happen. All they want is for me to play a board game with them, which can only happen if they come to me first. If a child in fact does want sex with me, I have the moral obligation to turn them down.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire, meaning the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!