Parenting your pedophilic child: How to bring up your pedophilic child (the right way)

Many parents are afraid of their child being raped or sexually assaulted by a pedophile. This is a common fear amongst parents. However, few parents bank on their child being a pedophile. The most oppressed of all pedophiles are those who are still children.

What is pedophilia? Many people think it is something hidden, like an anger packet that the individual doesn't want to acknowledge. However, pedophilia is something very obvious to the pedophile, in a hidden way. Pedophilia is a form of sexual immaturity associated with autism. In most cases, pedophilia is the understory of child-centered autism. Whenever you see a teenager with autism just "get" children, think pedophile. Most individuals with autism are cold as a rock around children. A pedophile has a form of autism that makes them warm to children, like butter and cookies. Most pedophiles are introverts, with very few being extroverts. When they are a people person, they usually are in a position of power, even if that position of power and influence is their adult role, and those pedophiles tend to be antisocial. Most pedophiles simply don't conform to the norm when it comes to dealing with child, and have not internalized the societal hatred of children. The more dangerous of pedophiles do not have autism, and instead are in a position of power and influence, and have multiple victims. 3 out of 4 pedophiles have not abused a child, however, and the vast majority of pedophiles are victims of child abuse, especially those under the age of 18.

Most pedophiles fit the "rule boy" profile of autism, meaning they see life as a set of rules. However, for a pedophile, the rules don't apply to children. Most pedophiles may impose rules on their parents, but will treat children, including younger siblings, with a very different brush. A common childhood behavior for pedophiles is imposing on parents in a way that prevents them from disciplining their children. Most pedophiles have a humanizing attraction to children, and are hypersensitive in a way that makes them a bleeding heart for children.

What children with pedophilia need are two things from parents. First, they need someone to talk to about their desires. What should then come out is not an explosion, but instead a list of crushes coming like train cars, with the parent of course hoping for the caboose. It may not be your favorite topic, but it needs to be allowed as a topic of discussion. A pedophile also needs to masturbate righteously, meaning masturbate in order to purge unrequited lusts. The Greek root word denoting "lust" or "inordinate affection" is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. Masturbation was seen as the way out of unrequited lusts or passions.

I would like to take a moment to point out that not all pedophile disclosures are safe. Most pedophile disclosures are tearful, as most pedophiles have internalized that sexual abuse is harmful to children, and know to keep good boundaries with children. Some pedophiles are tone-deaf in their disclosures, and this usually means that they minimize the harm to children. I saw no harm in asking young girls for their number and/or address, as I saw no harm in "inviting" myself to their home. If I were to be invited to any child's home, I would have engaged in forced affection, meaning hugs and snuggles without the consent of the child. I internalized children's rights wrong, and before I was old enough to be a pedophile (meaning age 16), I was pro-contact. I tried to become anti-contact, but didn't understand how messed up my thinking was until I made a post on the Virtuous Pedophile forum under the header "a forgiving girl". VirPed user Todd Nickerson called me out for what I was - an obvious abuser. I didn't belong at VirPed at all, as I am not virtuous as a pedophile. What helped me empathize with victims of child sexual abuse was being confronted with the trauma it creates in the group Ethical Treatment of Children (ETC). I am an odd case of a pedophile that made others look bad, as most pedophiles know the boundaries around children. I need to atone for all of the offense I have imposed as a pedophilic adult, meaning I am deserving of nothing but DEATH and PUNISHMENT merely for existing with the track record that I have in relation to children. 

Most pedophiles are confronted by their own desires around age 16, with that age being the minimum age for receiving a diagnosis of pedophilia. Most pedophiles, around that age, see themselves growing up, and their attraction figures staying the same. This self-revelation usually leads to depression. I myself was on a pro-contact website as a child, and I internalized it as a children's rights site, with me supporting the "sexual rights" of children. If a child is not like me, and is crying for help, believe them, as their pain and anguish is real.

I myself am fortunate to have someone to talk to about my pedophilic desires. I have a mother and a therapist as close confidants to talk to about my disorder. The disorder is in remission, meaning it no longer leads to sexually offending children through harassment. If I get a crush on a child, I can simply talk to my mother and my therapist about the attraction, and channel my fixation into talking to my mother and my therapist. Most pedophiles get fixations, but know to keep them private. If I get another crush, my mother will be the first to hear about the fixation. For some abuser pedophiles, abuse is a fixation and not a narcissist, and those abusers are the hardest to treat, because they just don't understand the boundaries. I was willing to learn, but I had to be called a "creep" and see a young girl scared in order to change.

Every single adult is capable of child abuse of the worst kind, under the right/wrong conditions. Most adults have done something to atone for towards a child. Most pedophiles simply have a risk to abusing  a child, with that risk being low. I don't hate myself for my fantasies, but because of my risk to children. I gauge my risk to children by how children react to my existence, and I might have earned my keep with most children, but I don't say. I continue to hate the fact that I have any risk towards a child whatsoever. The paradigm is zero risk, which only Christ has achieved in relation to children.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke their children to anger through sexual shaming abuse will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire! Repent!