Child crushes: How to deal with crushes on children (and prevent child sexual abuse before it happens)

Child sexual abuse is a real issue facing adults as a whole. 1 in 10 children will be raped or sexually assaulted before their 18th birthday. Most adults blame pedophiles - and pedophiles only - for the rape and sexual assault of children. The rape and sexual assault of children comes from a crush on a child, which all adults are capable of forming under the right/wrong conditions. What should you, as an adult, so when you find yourself attracted to a child.

How does most child sexual abuse occur? Most at-risk adults for raping or sexually assaulting children start out noticing an attraction to children, and then fight it back. They keep fighting back their sexual desires for children until they can no longer. The repressed sexual desires for children then comes out sideways onto the child. The only abusers that divert from this trend are obvious abusers, who sexually harass children on the surface level by approaching then with sexually motivated intent.

Having a crush on a child is not a sin or moral crime. One verse that is commonly misunderstood in the realm of adult attraction to children is Matthew 5:27-28 KJV:

Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath already committed adultery with her in his heart.

The Greek root word translated "lust" is επιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, or even sexual desire towards children, but instead to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. When you are so much in lust with a child that you find yourself taking the first steps to approach them, you have already committed the moral crime of fornication with the child in your heart. When the child perceives your approach, and is either offended or procured by it, you are guilty of the moral crime of adult fornication.

If you don't want to become the next sex offender on the evening news, it is best that you masturbate to all of your sexual thoughts, including your sexual thoughts of children. If you refuse to acknowledge any of your sexual desires through masturbation, it becomes a narcissist. Once you get to the point where you only feel sexually about children in your dreams, you are officially a rapist. It may not come out as rape, but it is sure to come out somehow. Unless you turn away from sexual entitlement and masturbate, you are predestined to become a sexual offender.

Child sexual abuse is a form of abuse that neatly fits into the two categories of rape or sexual assault. Rape/sexual assault is the most severe form of fornication, and is defined as sexually offensive actions ranging from leering to rape. "Sexually offensive" can mean a child either being offended by, or procured by, the sexually motivated approach of adults.

I myself am a pedophilic adult who is deserving of nothing but DEATH and PUNISHMENT merely for existing in relation to children. I was an obvious abuser. I actually believed that a sleepover with a young girl was a possibility, where I could hug and snuggle with her for romantic reasons. I am currently under investigation for antisocial "rough-play" with a female cousin of mine. I am grateful for my child victims forgiving me, as I deserve none of it.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape or sexually assault children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire! Repent!