Homosexuality in children and adolescents: Why not to throw away a good child

Many parents today who have my Christian fundamentalist values still disparage of their homosexual children. Most parents who find out that their child has same-sex attractions throw away their children, meaning kick them out on the street, usually after trying to "pray away the gay" and "purge the gay". Nowhere in the Bible does it say that same-sex attractions are sin or wrong to identify by. Nowhere in the Bible is the word "gay" banned. Only acting on those desires is condemned.

There are positive mentions of homosexuality in the Bible, but only where you wouldn't expect. See Matthew 19:12 KJV:

For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, that were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.

This is an enumeration of different type of single celibacy in the Christian Church. Some people were born eunuchs, and we can fit homosexuals into this category, and most homosexuals fit into this caregory in biblical times. 

In the gay classifications, there is a category called celibate gay. Celibate gays remain in single celibacy in order to study Scripture. Some are capable of self-attraction, meaning they usually masturbate to fantasies of sex with themselves. 

Masturbation was a way of staying out of trouble in biblical times. The Greek root word denoting lust in biblical times is επιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but to sexual entitlement, which is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. Approaching another man for sexual or flirtatious purposes is the moral crime of homosexual entitlement. Once that approach is perceived by the other man (or the other woman) it is sodomy.

What should parents do when they find out their child is homosexual? First, maybe try to instill in them that they are not "gay" but rather same-sex attracted, but that they are free to masturbate however they wish. Allow them to talk to you about their same-sex attractions, and be a listening ear for them. Chances are, the attractions will be benign and not predatory. Predatory homosexuality only happens when sexual desires for the same sex are repressed. When the desires are on the surface, they are benign. But, God does not want them acted upon, and any good Christian parent should instill that man shall not lay down with man. That's not the way to go.

I do not have same-sex attractions, and instead am a heterosexual pedophile. I myself am called to be single and celibate, and that calling makes sense to me. I cannot have what I want either, and I have come to a point where I don't want what I want. I can survive. So can someone with same-sex attractions. Just masturbate to the point where you don't need another man or another woman, and then you can't have one. That masturbation habit should be instilled from early on.

The depraved and decadent, defiled men who defile themselves next to other men will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them be forever cast into the everlasting lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!