Saturday, February 25, 2023

Callous and unemotional traits (CU): Why the fetal position cures callous and unemotional traits in children

Few parents have to deal with this scenario, but it is a haunting and convicting scenario for the parent. A child is diagnosed with a form of conduct disorder known as callous and unemotional traits (CU). Callous and unemotional traits come from abusive parenting that is repressive in nature, and is the full emotional complex of a child in full repressed mode. Psychohistory concerning the biblical context shows, however, that parents can clean up the mess they made. 

The solution for CU is the fetal position, lies within the context of the Christian doctrine of mutual submission. Parents are to be submissive to their children, just as mankind is to be submissive to God, regarding themselves as the enemy of such. In return, children are to rest safely and securely in the love and submission of parents. The fetal position is a form of mutual submission in and of itself, where the child rests in the loving arms of parents. See Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:
Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. 

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the love and grace of parents. Children are to rest in the sacrifice of parents, just as parent believers rest securely in the Sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Parents are to be extensions of Christ in the family home, dutifully and selflessly submitting to children just as they would to God, expecting absolutely nothing in return, with children resting safely and securely in the submission of parents. Parents are to submit to their children as their enemy, from beneath yet from above, revering and fearing children as vulnerable extensions of God.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to damages or offenses, namely the slightest of personal offense perceived by a child, including, but not limited to, the slightest of offensive touch or speech perceived by a child, stemming from entitlement. This commandment was intended by the Apostle Paul, and was understood in its original context, as a moral statute prohibiting all forms of punitive parenting, including any punishments or controlling demeanor towards a child. In the Old Testament, punitive parents were put to death by way of bloodletting, after punishing their children one last time. Parents who punished their children were charged with kidnapping, with "kidnapping" being defined under the Law as any damages or offenses stemming from hostage-taking - child punishment was seen in biblical times as holding your child hostage merely for things they did wrong, thereby treating them as a quartered slave. Paul here was lifting up this legal context in order to convict a group of Greek Christian parents who brought their pagan custom of spanking and punishing children into the church. Paul, contrary to popular legend, was anti-spanking, and opposed any and all punishment of a child.

Children, in biblical times, wore absolutely no clothing, at all, until they became adults. Women only wore clothing when outside the home, otherwise going in the nude, in order to serve their husbands and their children, separately. Mothers served their children by way of providing for them nourishment and sustenance, namely attachment parenting items such as breastfeeding and skin-on-skin comfort. CU was a rare complex in biblical times, but was more common in the Early Church, especially amongst Greek and Roman Christians who were still learning the Christian way of parenting, which was attachment parenting. Ancient Greco-Roman society was a psychopathic society, and that psychopathy was evident in Greek and Roman children. Mothers were instructed to use the fetal position to bring out the repressed emotion in both children and the parent. 

The fetal position happens when mothers invite a child to co-sleep with them, then curl up with them in that fetal position. CU consists of the full emotional complex of a child being repressed, usually with that emotional complex being repressed ADHD or bipolar disorder. Usually, in these cases, the emotions of a child are repressed by 8 or 9, and this is because of parents using force in parenting. The fetal position, especially in skin-on-skin format, brings out these emotions in what is called a cry of cries, meaning a cry that acknowledges trauma. You as a parent probably will cry like that, that first time curling up with your child. It is best to do this when they are younger. You will know if your child has this complex by your developmental pediatrician or child psychiatrist saying "congratulations, you have just raised a psychopath!". Psychopathy is the adult form of this complex, where an adult has a repressed emotional complex. A psychopath was deprived of closeness as a child, and so showing your CU child closeness while they are still children breaks the cycle, and brings out their emotions. They probably will only trust you as a parent. Any closeness will help with such a child. If we all as a society turned the other cheek and showed closeness and warmth to CU children, they would heal from their childhood trauma a lot quicker.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger through punitive parenting will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them be forever cast into the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Let them descend into the abyss which is the ever-burning Hell of fire and torment, suffering God's Wrath forever and ever! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!

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