Pro-social shyness: Why to be shy around your child

Many parents think that parenting is a bold feat. I myself can be a judge of entitlement, and the more outgoing and assertive you are with your children, the more entitled you are with them. A good parent is to be shy with their children, meaning pro-social shyness.

Every single parent is guilty merely for existing in relation to children, and is deserving of DEATH and DESTRUCTION merely for their depraved and entitled sin nature. Every single parent and adult has wronged children with their existence, and is to be convicted of that original sin, then turning themselves into their children. 

The doctrine of mutual submission is denoted in Ephesians 6:1-4:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor thy father and mother, as this is the first commandment with promise: That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long upon the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "nurture" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to a certain standard of Christian discipline in parents, where parents are entitled to nothing, and are grateful that they even have children. Children owe parents nothing, and parents owe children everything, with this leading to a chastened up attitude. This chastened up attitude chars and tars the adult, cleansing him of impurity and entitled intent, ultimately leading to wanting nothing from or of children, with this shy and disciplined attitude being a good example for children to follow. May children have many words in their immature years, which won't last forever, and parents be shut up by the Lord, being grateful for their silence, being led by the every need of a child, with parents not questioning a child's needs at all. Verbal warnings should be rare, and should come with no punishment or consequence, as denoted by the Greek root word νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to a warning that a want is unsafe or unattainable, such as saying "no" to an expensive wanted item from a child that you can't afford. Children should get whatever they want whenever safe and attainable, and parents should meekly and shamefacedly put their child's wishes and needs first, and their comfort and needs last. Children should be reassured and listened to when they have a temper tantrum from the word "no" or other verbal denial of wants.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to wrath" is παροργιζο (Latin: parorgizo) and literally translates to "bitter anger", and refers to provocations to anger in context, meaning any and all offenses against children, as defined as the slightest of offense perceived by the child. The Apostle Paul here was cracking down on punitive parenting in the Ephesian church by Greek Christians, meaning a few parents held onto the ancient Greco-Roman custom of spanking children, meaning Paul was purging the church community in Ephesus of idolatry and parental entitlement, as spanking a child was seen as pagan and idolatrous for any Christian parent to do. Punishing a child was defensible under Roman law, but not under Jewish law. Christians were seen by greater Greco-Roman society as "soft" on children in terms of discipline, to the point of religious contention between the pagan and Christian communities. The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure trust in parents. Replace "obey" with "trust" and you come to a roughly better translation, with this command being written aside for parents to keep, and earn their children's trust. This form of trust is one borne out of maternal warmth and sustenance. Mothers especially are to be meek and shamefaced in their conditioning in relation to their children. Mothers in biblical times swaddled their children next to them with swaddling bands, wrapping their children up next to them and in their bosom until adulthood. Children were breastfed and treated as infants until age 3. This context is applicable today to the degree in which it can be applied, but any punishment and control is heresy, and if you think you will do that as an adult, it is best that you DON'T have children of your own.

I myself fall shy around children, due to my level of non-entitlement. If they are playing rambunctiously and perhaps also loudly in the store, running across aisles and such, I just step out of the way quickly, showing reverence for that small human being that can easily be hurt by my adult might. I revere and fear children to the point of Christian love, meaning I fear them, but am not afraid of them. It is a very low level conviction that you do not disturb the neighbors, with children being my neighbor. The idea behind pro-social shyness in parenting is that children can play freely and rambunctiously, as is their excusable nature, and adults are the shelter with their shy nature in relation to children. This means being led tirelessly by your child everywhere that interests them, like a ragdoll.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand! Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Let them descend into the abyss that is the Hell of fire and torment, suffering God's Wrath for all eternity! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!