Pedophilic children: America's true victims of pedophile hysteria (and child abuse)

Many parents fear the likelihood of their child experiencing child sexual abuse, whereas most parents abuse their children, oftentimes throughout their childhood and through law-abiding means. Most of the time, anti-spanking trauma is an understory. However, some children show the trauma on the surface, and they are the least to be listened to.

Pedophilia is a mental disorder involving attraction to children under age 14. Children age 16 and up can be diagnosed with pedophilic disorder. 3 out of 4 pedophiles have not sexually abused a child, and most pedophilic adults believe in youth rights and are convicted of such beliefs. 

Pedophilia is antisocial traumatic dissociation, meaning in the United States, a trauma usually conflates it. Due to the unique nature of the parental thread conflated by the trauma, most pedophiles are actually aware of their trauma, and never repressed their trauma from punitive parenting. Punitive parenting is the source of pedophile hysteria.

The most common form of abuse pedophilic children have experienced as children is sexual shaming abuse, usually in the form of punishment and control around the concept of masturbation, usually in a heavily moralized way. This is based off of the false biblical concept that this verse bans pedophilia. See Colossians 3:5-7 KJV:

Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: For which things sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience: In ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them.

The Greek root word translated "inordinate affection" is επιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers to sexual entitlement, namely adult sexual entitlement. It does refer to desire, but only to the level of severity where the holder of such desire is actively seeking to impose said desire onto another person, with or without consent, with children not being able to consent. This does not mean sexual fantasy is banned, unless it is used as a planning ploy to sexually abuse a child, in which case it is counted as a part of the offense in reverse coloration format. Thus, punishing children for sexual fantasy, even about much younger children, is child abuse, meaning a moral crime, thus sin.

Pedophilic children are canaries in the coal mine on the spanking issue. Most all of them are against it, entirely, in a militant way that runs their parents aground - commit to gentle parenting or bust, is the message most pedophile parents get. That is because the trauma is blatantly obvious in pedophiles, even at the anti-spanking level. 

Childhood trauma is a war zone trauma for a pedophile. I myself am a pedophile, and I have used "innocent until proven guilty" as a means to combat my trauma. It is a watchdog I can bring out at any time, and I grit my teeth when I express my trauma, usually to make a point about it. Most of us get to that point, here at pedophile survivors. Most pedophiles have experienced the hysteria of society first from their parents, and then the media, as a religious sexual trauma. I myself was accepted by my family and have found a niche in my community, and in the American children's rights community.

We are moving on from pedophiles. The research is clear, pedophiles are more likely to be victims of child abuse than perpetrators of child abuse. The safest adult you leave your children with might just be a pedophile, as non-offending pedophiles often get to the point of zero entitlement towards children sometime in adulthood. Gentle parents have been meddled with and attacked so much that they may still feel the need to defend their parenting choices. Pedophiles, in their personal lives, usually use vulnerability tactics if accused of child abuse. It is when you accuse them of being a pedophile that they get defensive - because that is still a closeted issue. We no longer count pedophiles as among our abuser here - we blame their abusive parents.