Chastity instruction: How to teach chastity to one's child

Many parents have my values when it comes to Christian morals and their child's sexuality. But, teenagers often have their own mind. I am morally opposed to chastity belts. Do you not know that I know what you are doing to that poor daughter of yours? God is watching, and *I* am His extension, and so is she, and we team up. Children shouldn't wear chastity belts. 

What does a teenage girl need instead of being policed? Being loved, meaning in relationship with a parent, namely YOU, dear fathers, and a relationship that doesn't provoke them to anger. It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) refers to secure, vulnerable rest and trust in the love and grace of parents, coming from sacrifice for children, in the spirit of how Christ sacrificed for His children; taking up the cross, in the spirit of how Christ took up the cross for His children; martyring oneself for one's own children, leading to rest and security in the love and warmth of parents, showing gratitude by emulating the example and instruction of parents, expecting absolutely nothing in return. The idea is to be best friends with your daughter, especially as a father, going places, seeing sights, and so forth, so that she has validation from a decent male figure in her life. Daughters run off with boys when they are getting insufficient attention from parents, especially the parent of the opposite sex. We are talking wholesome, appropriate attention, not sexually deviant or entitled attention. This is called the electra complex, meaning friendship between father and daughter is often sexual at some hidden level, and in attachment parenting homes, this shows many times. If it does, restrain it and retire it to solitary activity, in closed quarters away from her, in a form of pro-social channeling. She can channel any feelings for boys in that way as well, meaning she can be instructed that she can take her lustful passions for a boy into her own room, and supervised otherwise when around boys. I wouldn't even allow a boy to stay overnight, and would send him home before nightfall.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and literally translates to "stirring up" upset and resentment in children, referencing the Jewish adage of "stirring the pot" in terms of your child's emotional well-being. This command from God given by the Apostle Paul prohibits anything that the child would perceive to be an offense, namely any punishment or controlling attitudes. Controlling the chastity of children is a form of adult sexual entitlement, meaning feeling like you have the right to control your child's sexuality. You instruct and impart values onto them if you are morally opposed to sex outside of marriage, and supervise so it doesn't happen, sending the eager boy home instead allowing him to stay over. Teenage girls were spanked in the ancient Hellenistic world when they were unchaste, and thus deemed deserving of punishment by society. Judeo-Christian society then did not punish young girls, but supervised young women over age 12 until marriage, with the actual arrangement between father and daughter being friendly, with the father making the final decision, but with the daughter pointing out all the young men she liked and didn't like - parents were merely witnesses on the marriage contract, which was finalized by sexuality...Everything stated for a girl can also be the case for the reverse in terms of sex combinations of children, or else same-sex attractions.

Chastity is mainly a male thing in the Bible, meaning women and girls were cut a break in Christendom. Men and boys were expected to be chaste, and wait until marriage to have sex with a woman. Men were to have self-control in Christian circles then to the point of martyrdom, meaning abstinence was a point of pride in men, alongside monogamous charity for one's wife in the Early Church, with women having less responsibility than a man. Adults have a moral duty to be chaste in relation to their children or any child. But, I write for a world that unfairly targets young girls for their sex drive, and persecutes them for what they want. I believe they should abstain as well, but that is a conclusion CHILDREN come to, not their parents. Parents simply influence their children.

The depraved and entitled parents who sexually abuse a child by way of chastity training will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn in the lake of fire and brimstone, which is the second death, which is Satan's final resting place! Let them burn in the Hell of fire, descending into everlasting torment! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!