Benign deprivation: Why to deal with yourself that way (not your child)

Benign deprivation was a part of my abusive upbringing, and an aspect of how God Himself brought me out of my abuse. Benign deprivation is a behaviorist tactic that you either can use on yourself or others. The idea of benign deprivation is that you aren't deserving of anything in life, so deprive YOURSELF as a parent, not your child, in relation to your child.

The idea is to understand what the Greek root word denoting entitlement is in the New Testament. The Greek root word denoting entitlement is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers directly to wanting things from a child, or wanting them to do things for you, to the point of seeking to impose said want onto a child. Adults, including parents, are deserving of everything bad and disrespectful, and nothing good and respectful from children, and are wicked and evil by their very nature, deserving of DEATH and DESTRUCTION merely for existing as adults. I am entitled to nothing in relation to children, and grateful for the every respect and care from a child, which I am undeserving of.

The doctrine of mutual submission is based on the concept that benign deprivation is for the parents, and not children. It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest and trust in parents, coming from sacrifice for one's child, in the spirit that Christ sacrificed for His children; taking up the cross, in the spirit that Christ took up the cross for His children, martyring oneself in everything in parenting, leading to children resting warmly in parents, showing gratitude and thanksgiving by emulating their example, expecting absolutely nothing in return. This Greek root word ultimately uplifts the traditional Judeo-Christian parenting of the biblical context, which is attachment-based in nature. Mother-child intimacy with children was to the level of nudity, with child nudity being legal and accepted under Jewish customary law in the Bible, and that was for mothers to snuggle and co-sleep with their children, with mothers also in the nude in the family home. Children up to age 3 were swaddled to the bosom of mothers, being breastfed, with them being treated in terms of behavior as an infant. Children much older, perhaps into adulthood, co-slept with their mothers at night, with mothers and daughters being inseparable. Parents are to sacrifice in terms of depriving themselves of what they want, meaning you can't get whatever you want from your child as a parent. Martyrdom is the proper ego for a parent, not pride.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and literally translates to "stirring up" upset and resentment in children, as in the Jewish adage of "stirring the pot" in terms of your child's emotional well-being. Benign deprivation tactics imposed on children stir up their emotions in a negative way, and this command was intended by the Apostle Paul, thus by God, to ban benign deprivation of children, or refusing requests just for the sake of refusing requests, alongside any form of controlling attitudes towards a child, including corporal punishment. The Apostle Paul instead handed out parenting manuals recommending attachment parenting, which included self-applied benign deprivation, meaning going by the child's demands, as children are extensions of God in the moral legal sense, and the "least of these", being chastened up by the lawful and binding orders of children, halting to their demands, supplying their demands at their lawful and binding orders, responding to their every petition for a redress of grievances. Children should have ultimate power over their parents as to needs, with parents beholden to children completely, with this being the doctrine of mutual submission between children and their parents.

Benign deprivation is not to be used on children, ever, meaning all declined requests should have a reason, with this reason being stated clearly in language a child at their developmental level can understand. Benign deprivation has its place in parenting - self-imposed by the parents alone, in the Lord, sparing the child like a bus shelter in the rain. Deprive yourself of your aggressive instincts as a parent, may they be physical/verbal or sexual/pedophilic, turning them inwards by channeling anger and/or sexual lusts for children elsewhere until the need in relation to the child is extinguished.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn and rot in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!