Attachment parenting: Why that was the solution to my abuse

Many of us with a "pro-spank" personality. I myself want to bring back the cane for pro-spanking parents and parent lecturers. I was abused within the law, and I did not turn out okay, at all. I just pretend not to be traumatized, while identifying by it on the level of a revved up engine.

Growing up, both my parents abused me, but in different lights. One, meaning my father, punished me physically, as an authoritative parent, not an authoritarian one. Authoritative parents can be very warm and fuzzy. but seemingly to mask their guilty conscience as to their need to punish their children. I was spanked "out of love" as a child, meaning even that can do serious harm to a child. F*CK parents because of that, because I wanted to be listened to, not judged and condemned to my fate. WE are pedophile survivors, and WE hate what was done to us, and WE see it clearly due to our pedophilia. WE don't internalize crap from our abusive parents - we were wronged, and the parents will pay, in court someday hopefully, once all is banned! The law abuses me today, as my parents are apologetic, meaning "reasonable chastisement" should be killed as a law, meaning destroy it completely. We want ALL the parents who punish their children to be arrested, and all the adults that promote their evil held accountable for their adult sin nature and entitlement. I loved visiting Iceland, where spanking was banned since 2003. No parents screaming and carrying on about their children. Apparently, the children might scream at home, but the parents don't care. Parents shouldn't. I don't care about children screaming.

My mother also punished me in more forgiving ways, meaning time-out, but I forgave her from the beginning because she didn't like what she was doing, and later quit sitting me in a chair because I wouldn't sit. I became friends with her at one point, meaning gentle parenting, and then I could tell her anything. My father was jealous. I still have a good relationship to be known.

Attachment parenting is parenting based off of attachment theory, meaning using attachment research to test the temperature of the relationship with your child. It is basically being friends with your child. Both my parents became my friends in this regard. Basically, it is a friendship where parents know everything about you, and accept everything about you. That's all attachment parenting is, and I support it 100%. My mother took the popular attachment parenting advice. 

Attachment parenting is the tradition in this country, even if it isn't the norm yet. It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged. 

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest and trust in the love and grace of parents, meaning sacrifice for children, in the spirit that Christ sacrificed for His children; taking up the cross, in the spirit that Christ took up the cross for His children; martyring yourself in everything in parenting, expecting absolutely nothing in return. That Greek word ultimately uplifts an attachment parenting context in the Bible. Child nudity was legal throughout the biblical context, so mothers could easily bond with them by way of skin-to-skin contact. Children were swaddled to their mothers up to age 3 and breastfed as infants, with their behaviors treated as infant behavior. 

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to "stirring up" upset and anger in children, referring to the Jewish adage of "stirring the pot" in terms of your child's emotional well-being. The Apostle Paul here gave a clear command, by his own intent, not to spank or punish children. This means abuse is the slightest of personal offense perceived by the child, regardless of civil laws. The secular law should be on par with this biblical standard, as we are a Christian nation founded on Judeo-Christian family values. 

I hate the legal concept of "reasonable chastisement". My trauma turned out to be a legal one, associated with parental rights, meaning "power to the parent" crap involving disciplinary rights, meaning I want to take your rights away as a parent, and I don't care. I want to harm your ability to punish your child, and I relish in it. 

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children will burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur! My parents apologized, and I am grateful to God for their apology. Parental entitlement is the opposite of apology, meaning an entitled parent imposes their will onto children and doesn't care about their rights! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!