Why parents should be martyrs for their children, not authority figures

Many parents believe they are authority figures over their children, and see themselves as the police. Usually, though, this is "so the police don't have to police them later", said conversely in first-person format by the likes of Detective Robert Surgenor in the Early 2000s, in his abuse manual "No fear". I hate parents not because they are parents, but because true parents don't exist outside of Children's Rights Communities and the layers of support connected to the Radio Antenna. 

It says in 1 Corinthians 13:4 KJV:

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not himself, is not puffed up.

The Greek root word translated "charity" refers to Christian love, and is denoted by the Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao) and refers to love to the level of martyrdom for one's child, being convicted to surrender oneself to God through one's child by way of reverent fear, positing all adult power and control to the footstool of children, sacrificing for one's child, taking up the cross for one's child, just as Christ took up the cross for His children, rendering oneself beneath one's child, devaluing oneself as a caregiver and servant to children, shielding one's child from blame, just as Christ shielded His children from blame, leading to good works just for the sake of good works, expecting absolutely nothing in return, being and feeling grateful for the good works done to children. The results are summed up in God's commandment for mutual submission. Children first, parents last. It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to providing custody, meaning children are to rest in the love and grace of parents, with parents supplying every demand of children, and children being able to be themselves in relation to parents, and be able to demand needs or redress of grievances to parents, owing absolutely nothing in relation to children, but nonetheless showing gratitude for parents by listening to their voice and heeding instruction, with that voice being reassuring and familiar in a guiding way, like a tug, and not being a source of fear. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to "stirring the pot" in terms of child anger, referring here to the offenses in the legal context of the Bible under the Eighth Commandment, namely assault and battery laws that protect children as well as adults (ancient Israel had no "reasonable chastisement" defense). Basically, this refers to the slightest of offense perceived by a child, including corporal punishment. The Apostle Paul was in fact issuing a commandment instating an anti-spanking law, repeating the Law of Moses, which banned the slightest of touch against a child without their consent as theft, and the intent to punish making it kidnapping, meaning holding them hostage because they won't do what you want them to do. 

Parenting is a selfless profession, meaning in the biblical sense, a police officer or judge isn't a parent, but a therapist or clinical psychologist takes the role of parent, and those same techniques of transference are what parents used in biblical times to bond with their children, except that, with mothers, the bond was more physical with younger children. Infants up to age 3 were swaddled next to mothers, with older children playing closely yet freely next to parents by day, and sleeping next to them by night. Mothers then martyred themselves entirely by way of intense closeness for children, and fathers by way of loving and friendly encouragement. That was the norm then, and God uses the New Testament text to lift up, through another similar context, the attachment parenting context of the Bible.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger through fits of anger or loss of control of their own will not inherit the Kingdom of God! They will forever be cast in the lake of burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for the evil one and his accomplices! Satan created spanking and child abuse, and God will erase it from the face of the earth in due time! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!