Why immature parents make the best parents (seeing children on their level)

What is an immature parent? An immature parent, according to parent research, is either naturally on the child's level, or manufactured to be such. I am the former. Think pedophile, and you might get the picture, when couple with autistic immaturity. Most people see me as wanting to be friends with preteen girls because I am at their level emotionally - and every parent should be that immature in relation to their child.

Attached, gentle parents to their children are generally immature, but in a box designed directly for each individual child they have. When you see children not as extensions of you, but as a best friend that is their own person, you end up being on their level when around them. In my case, they rise up to my level, and then I remember how complicated children are. I am trained by my Christian faith to assume nothing about a child, apart from the fact that they are guilty of nothing. You'll never convince me otherwise, since my anger is silenced towards children, righteously. I can get impatient, but only enough to set a boundary. Otherwise, I grow tired and weary. This is how most mothers instead feel about their infant, whereas they are like that up until age 18. Those of us who are gentle parenting pedophiles tend to be naturals, but still have to struggle like any other parent here by keeping back sexual entitlement directed towards children, meaning no parent is perfect, but I don't internalize societal norms of "pro-social" child hatred.

It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to providing custody, meaning being a caregiver or servant to a child. Most all of this, meaning all when Christian parents weren't abusive, was parents being on their child's level, in a convicting, passive way, where children give the orders, and parents either obey blindly, or talk out a compromise with children, rarely saying a flat out "no". It was an immature friendship, but a convicting one on the part of the parent, meaning parents saw children as equals with greater value than them, meaning extensions of God, and worshipped children as their own unique altars, meaning each and every child was an individual. Child surrender is rest in this sort of passive submission from parents. The submission is a striking one, out of reverent fear (GRK: ψοβός), meaning an undeserving attitude towards parents. You start from zero in terms of knowing what you deserve from a child, and let them elevate and decide for themselves what you deserve from them, ultimately leading to casual friendship with one's child once the ice is broken, preferably by age 5 through bonding techniques attachment parenting such as co-sleeping one's child and constantly holding them. The idea is that you see the child as a vulnerable human being, who is further put in a place of oppression in society. Child surrender refers to the friendship where the more mature, adult friend is trusted by the younger, inexperienced child friend, enough to heed the instruction of parents, and most of the time not think twice about it. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to the offenses under the Eighth Commandment, meaning taking something away from a child, which includes here safety, peace of mind, and quality-of-life, meaning even being a nuisance to a child out of entitlement is abuse.

Christian love for one's child is about being struck with reverent fear and terror for having a depraved sin nature deserving of everything bad and hateful from a child, and nothing good and pleasant, leading to reverent caution for the child's feelings, and only denying them privileges as an equal, and only when absolutely necessary in terms of total denial, usually coming to a compromise. The clear word "no" should be rare, in order to give it meaning, and should not ever have to be backed up by punishment. Never punish a child. Fear children, and fear their wrath of unmet needs, instead meeting their every need.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of God, with them descending forever into the abyss of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan as his final resting place! God gave them a chance, then condemned them once they condemned their child! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!