Pro-social self-diminish - Why parents must be smaller than their children (yet assertive)

What is big? What is small? Most parenting advice calls on parents to be bigger and stronger to children, and be their rock, perhaps. I find children listen when you ask them a favor on their level, meaning you exist on their level.

Every single adult is guilty merely for existing in relation to children, and is to be convicted of God's Law, thereby submitting to God through one's child, leading to parents paying due penance through indentured servitude towards the child, earning their freedoms and rights by way of honoring that of the child. This leads to good works for the child, and gratitude of such, expecting absolutely nothing good in return, and everything hurtful and disrespectful, knowing what an evil wretch of a parent/adult I am...I am to humble myself BENEATH a child, meaning to the lowly level I belong in relation to them.

Love for a child is sacrifice, and is denoted by the Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao) and refers to sacrificing oneself, taking up the cross like Christ did for His children, serving children their needs from beneath, devaluing oneself as lowly and depraved in relation to children.

This means be smaller than your child, ministering to your from child, being struck with terror as to their vulnerability and needs, much like one does with an elderly woman in a wheelchair. It is a reverent state where you only feel safe asking children nicely and politely to do something for you, and instead focus on doing things for them. True love never gives up at serving the vulnerable needs of children. 

The idea is that you, by default, do what your child asks of you. Get them a glass of milk. Drive them to the park. Take them to their favorite restaurant. THEN, and only then, do you get to ask a favor of a child, off to the side in terms of positioning. This is how I relate to children. Focus more on service towards them, then ask them to do a favor for you, knowing that if you are truly friends with them, and have given them so much, it isn't an issue.

Let the depraved and entitled parents BURN! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!