Wednesday, February 17, 2021

What is broomsweep? (an explanation for a corner you can get out of)

I do, in fact, broomsweep people out by responding to entitled abusers' statements with a type of calm that indicates a victim, eliciting a defense that elicits a defense in the other person. Usually, when "accused" meaning diagnosed as a pedophile, people get very defensive. I remain calm in a way that gauges the intent of that word. The premise is that an innocent person would be shockingly relieved, and think "things aren't supposed to go that smoothly. They rarely ever do". An abuser of pedophiles would instead shout something along the lines of "respond!", and if they would, I'd still remain calm, until I had no choice but to barrel back on them, and bring out their entitlement. It is pro-social abuse, meaning they have a way out, meaning I point it out to them completely - out.

It is a type of gaslighting that an actual perpetrator would not be able to mimick, and involves grateful wordage. So, anyone who accuses me of being the abuser in that sort of exchange, after not walking away, is the abuser. I often taunt them with a "thank you".

This is only in-person gaslighting, tested only with airborne altars. On the Internet, I do "walk-away" gaslighting. I am a unique anti-contact, meaning I'm willing to answer any question you have, as long as you don't ask too many and tire me out. But, if you start speaking in circles, squares, or antisocial gaslighting of any kind, I walk away, and may engage briefly to gather evidence if the taunts (think street harassment) are frequent. Trauma rules does not allow for this sort of environment with the kind of behavior I plan, which is rather insular. I don't like having too many friends - one who thought I thought she was a big one lost me. I've never seen that side of Robbyn, and it leaves me conflicted and with a bad taste in my mouth. If I were a child I'd grow up with PTSD.

Clear legal/therapeutic English, please, and sparingly. You don't need to be there as a "main advisor". It's called reflective listening. I have to come to my own conclusions, so yes, jar up your speech that way in your inbox. Ex. "So, what are you going to do about that crush on that girl next door" (nope, not really, but within the realm of unhealthy possibilities). "Legal" refers to the fact that any boundaries must be clearly stated and worded, word for word, and not stated in circles. If I'm unwilling to work with the questions, and defend myself about a situation with a child(ren), that alone is entitlement and can be used against me in court.

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