Sunday, January 31, 2021

Understanding pedophile hatred at its source: Risk of pedophile teens for child abuse and long-term trauma

Children and pedophiles. Both hated, yet different. Our friends are punished in front of us, whereas we are hidden and sequestered. It is the same venom and entitlement. Children get the compress from big parent, and pedophiles grabbed by the scruff of the neck to the point of suffocation - door hang treatment (yes, the usual self-inflicted kind many times, sadly). Most of the time, the door hang treatment does not occur in a state-run prison. Where does it occur? Another prison that is state sanctioned. Home. Childhood. 

Pedophiles, having a psychiatric condition, are not mere abusers, but victim/abusers. In the legal context, an abuser is a pedophile only implicitly, whereas a victim of abuse is a pedophile explicitly. Abusers should simply be called what they are - abusers, period, end of story. A man rapes a child, gets arrested, and goes to prison. End of story. Pedophiles should only be brought up when describing traits that put children at risk for abuse. 30% of pedophiles are children under the age of 18, and children are the most oppressed class of people on earth, and so pedophilic children are the most oppressed of pedophiles, and the most oppressed of children.

Pedophilia, in an adolescent child, puts him/her at risk for various forms of abuse, namely physical and sexual abuse. With physical abuse, children with the condition, particularly boys, can be rebellious and think apart from parents many times, leading to the child being abused with spanking, corporal punishment, or other forms of punishment or control. 

A pedophilic child is attached differently to a parent, from birth, than a normally-developing child. The attachment is sensitive, as pedophilia is high sensitivity conflated with sexual instincts. Punishing a child with this condition is something they will remember, and hold against their parents. But, on the other end of the token, when a parent chooses to listen to and validate said child's concerns and upset about their condition, they make a friend with their child, for life. You can tell parents anything.

This is a pedophile:
i'm sorry i was wired this way. i don't want to be this way. i wish i was into women like all my friends are. i can't live much longer hiding this secret - that i am a pedophile. please! please! please! i don't want to hurt a child! i don't want to hurt her! Young girls are so lovely, so adorable! Please, Lord, take this sick fetish away!

Those are the ones I usually see as an advocate. Then, many times, they shed their belief in God. It is a specific type of religious trauma centered around the teaching of predestination. They internalized that they were programmed by "God", like clockwork, to inflict harm on the children they love, knowing that it is wrong and harmful. They were convinced that they, at some point in time, would abuse a child. Remember, these aren't individuals with any children's rights expertise. They are ordinary individuals, and most of the general population has no real expertise on these subjects until they are affected by it.

Other cases, which are more high-risk, involve anxiety and depression centered around another topic, the abuse of children in general. In my case, I was extremely anxious that children around me were spanked, punished, or otherwise abused. It wasn't vengeful sort of stewing, but fearful, traumatic stewing. I felt calm, albeit stiff and frozen, at every layer but the bottom layer, where I felt suppressed anxiety that I couldn't shake. I felt cornered by seeing the child cornered.

Who is responsible for all child abuse? All adults, by default, are marked for deletion by God, and will be destroyed and annihilated on the last day, and will burn in everlasting torment on their last day. Many will be called to be parents or caregivers, but few will choose to submit to God through their child, and choose not to abuse or disrespect their child. All others will be terminated and erased, as objects of divine wrath. Let the prejudicial parents and haters burn - because they are the ones doing the abusing! They all tend to advocate spanking along the side, at some depth, as well...

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