Children self-protect, adults abstain: Why adults have individual responsibility in preventing child sexual abuse

Many people blame pedophiles for the epidemic of child sexual abuse that is taking place across our nation. However, contrary to popular belief, sexual abuse of children is not a predestined fate, but rather a lifestyle choice. Most child rapists and child sexual assailants are not pedophiles, by the strict understanding of the diagnostic criteria. Most child sexual abuse is a crime of opportunity, not simply a predestined fate that every pedophile has. 

Most children know how to protect themselves from child sexual abuse. Whenever children react to the adult in question in a repellant way, think abuser. When children spot a non-abusive pedophile, they instead want to go with the pedophile at hand. Most children get along with non-offending pedophiles in an objectifying way, like a ragdoll. 

The concept to focus on as an adult is adults abstain. It is okay to look the look at children, and maybe also think the think later. However, there is a big difference between thinking the think and doing the deed. The Greek root word denoting lust is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, but to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. In order to escape the approach, you need to masturbate to sexual thoughts of children.

Child sexual abuse is a crime of opportunity. Most child sexual abusers repress their sexual thoughts about children. When you repress something like that, you run the risk of the desire coming out sideways, like a ton of bricks for the child victim. The only way to acknowledge such a sexual desire is to masturbate to sexual thoughts of children. This helps spend away the sexual attractions, to the point of inner peace. 

Most child sexual abuse happens along the lines of the family sexual dynamic, which comes in the form of a criss-cross. Most victims are girls, and most of the time, her father is the perpetrator. The father usually approaches his child victim come bedtime, and the daughter usually instinctively goes along with it. However, those attractions should remain mutually unrequited, with the father engaging in sexual fantasy about his daughter. When the father masturbates to sexual thoughts of his child, the young girl ends up having a healthy body image. Child sexual abuse, however, tramples on the body image of young girls.

A pedophile is the last person to sexually abuse a child. Most pedophiles have child smarts in terms of autism, meaning that children are the center of our world. Most pedophiles disclose not in the form of an explosive disclosure, but in the form of a tearful disclosure. I myself instead was an obvious abuser, meaning I followed children around, coming onto them strong enough to creep them out. When the abuse happens in a public venue, think pedophile, but the wrong kind. A pedophile usually is not the one guilty of sexually abusing a child. Pedophiles instead have a collective parent trauma from sexually shaming parents. However, even when no parent is shaming you, you still have to deal with having a dead end in terms of sexual attraction to children. My mother tried to stop me from abusing children, but I had a will of my own. A mental illness is any thought process that interferes with your daily functioning, and pedophilia fits that criteria even if you have someone to talk to like I did - my mother was there to talk to, but I was obsessed with individual children nonetheless. A pedophile should be able to vent about their attraction, just not to the child themselves. My crushes came in the form of train cars, with my mother even hoping for the caboose.

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape and sexually abuse children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire prepared as the second death for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!