Adult attraction to children: Individual responsibility for adults attraction to children

Many parents and adults use the concept of collective responsibility to combat child sexual abuse. Collective responsibility involves gauging how quickly an institution responds to the embarrassment of having a child rapist on board with them - the more transparent, the better. However, pointing the finger is not the best attitude towards child sexual abuse. Whenever you point the finger, four more are pointing back at you. All adults are guilty in relation to children, merely for existing, as all adults pose some threat to children sexually.

1 in 10 children will be sexually abused before attaining the age of 18. However, only 1-2% of the male population are pedophiles, and so pedophiles can't be guilty for all of the sexual abuse happening to children. Most child sexual abuse is a crime of opportunity, with the act being a response to a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity that the adult in question refuses to abstain from. Making the choice to abstain from child sexual abuse is a commitment to a child in the form of lifestyle choice.

The Greek root word denoting lust in the Bible is έπιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to mere sexual desire, but instead refers to sexual entitlement. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. It is okay to look the look, and maybe think the think later. But, there is a big difference between thinking the think and doing the deed. "Doing the deed" refers to, at minimum, flirting with or propositioning a child, or else to touching a child at all with sexual intent. The only way out of the approach is to allow yourself righteous masturbation to child fantasies.

If you have a sexual attraction to a child, it should be made safe to disclose that attraction. If you can identify by your adult attractions to children, identify by it, as an at-risk adult, in most cases, cannot express that emotional reality with others. Some pedophiles post a risk to children, but that risk - in most cases - is minimal compared to other adults. The way to disclose is using clinical language, including possibly clinical celebratory language if necessary. 

I myself am a flawed adult, and have a sin list a mile long in relation to children. I myself have a sexual harassment problem in relation to children. I myself would follow young girls around in public, wanting romantic closeness with the child in question. I myself was an obvious abuser, meaning I made my advances towards children obvious to the child and everyone else around her. Most pedophiles have a squeaky-clean track record in relation to children. I didn't, and so I use myself to point out what to find in an abuser pedophile. 

Only 1 in 4 pedophiles are guilty of child sexual abuse towards a child, with the rest posing minimal risk in relation to children. Most of the time, the pedophilic perpetrator surfaces in the form of sexual harassment. Most pedophiles have a form of immature autism where their sexual development is arrested in time. Most of the time, the pedophile has an autistic specialty in children in terms of knowledge and social skills, with their age-oriented sexual preferences reflecting their specialty. The word "pedophile" simply means "friend of little children" in Greek. Some pedophiles did commit actual rape towards a child, but those instances are rare. 

Most adult men in particular have sexual attractions to teenage girls. Most adult women presumably have a sexual attraction to teenage boys, as many teenage boys have sexually mature features. Most child sexual abuse is committed against teenage girls. Thus, any old adult could sexually abuse a child, under the right/wrong conditions. The key is to admit to those hidden desires, and be self-honest about them using righteous masturbation. 

With righteous masturbation, you get to explore all of the possibilities with a child known to man, but always landing with the same conclusion - nothing at all. I myself experience masturbation as cathartic, meaning it purges all unrequited lusts in relation to children. I personally also use righteous avoidance strategies, such as charring and tarring all prospects with images of Hell. Most pedophiles don't need righteous avoidance to keep children safe, but I am an abuser pedophile myself in terms of track record, and so I need the extra self-accountability. I also have confided in my mother, and appointed her as my accountability partner. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled adults who rape and sexually abuse children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!