Sexual purity: How to teach sexual purity to children - without punishment or shaming

Many parents in America want to teach their children the good lesson of sexual purity. America was founded by the Puritans on grounds of sexual purity. Too many woke educators and teachers these days push new age, sexually impure ideas on impressionable young minds. The teaching of sexual purity is under attack by the woke left. 

The doctrine of sexual purity is summed up in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 KJV:

Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

The Greek root word translated "fornication" is πορνεία (Latin: porneia) and most literally translates to "anything outside of proper channels", and refers to, in part, any sexual relations outside of a marriage between one adult man and one adult woman. Fornication can be divided into three tiers - rape/sexual assault, fraudulent marriage, and obscenity. Fraudulent marriage is any sexual relations outside of a lawfully-ordained marriage that are consensual. A marriage, in biblical times, referred to any sexual intercourse between two individuals. However, all marriages had to be licensed by the state, or they were fraudulent as a marriage. 

Punishing a child for their sexuality is unlawful under Christian law. See Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to damages or offenses, namely the slightest of personal offense perceived by a child, including, but not limited to, the slghtest of offensive touch or speech perceived by a child, stemming from entitlement. This commandment was intended by the Apostle Paul, and understood in its original context, as a moral statute prohibiting all forms of punitive parenting, including any punishments or controlling demeanor towards children. In the Old Testament, punitive parents were put to death by way of bloodletting, after punishing their children one last time. Parents who punished their children were charged with kidnapping, with "kidnapping" being defined under the Law as the slightest of damages or offenses stemming from hostage-taking - child punishment was seen in biblical times as holding your child hostage merely for things they did wrong, thereby treating them as quartered slaves. Paul here was lifting up this legal context in order to convict a group of Greek Christian parents who brought their pagan custom into the church. Paul, contrary to popular legend, was anti-spanking, and opposed any and all punishment of a child.

Children in biblical times were more sexually aware than today's children. Daughters were attracted to fathers, and fathers to daughters, in a mutually unrequited way where both masturbated to sexual thoughts of each other, usually starting when the girl was age 3. Sons were usually sexually attracted to mothers, usually starting at around age 3. Children usually started masturbating at around age 3, in which case they were given space to do so by their parents. 

Once puberty hit, children became attracted to same age peers, or else older adults, or both. It was around this time that children played "marriage". Children in biblical times went naked wherever they went, with the core contract of a marriage being signed on the dotted line by way of sexual intercourse. Most children simply embraced, but sometimes, the boy wanted to penetrate the girl, in which case supervising parents simply led the boy away, and reassured him that "you'll be able to do that someday". Children were reassured that all would be fine in them waiting until they were of legal age to marry. Most sexual interactions between children were prevented by way of supervision, meaning children never left the line of sight of parents.

Children rarely sexually propositioned their parents, but some did, usually with the parent of the opposite sex. The parent being propositioned set the boundary, and made that bounary clear. Children were reassured in the Early Church that they would get what they want with a man or woman that loved them. Most children in the Early Church knew to masturbate to thoughts of their parents, but some ran into their parents in their sexual path, and they were sent right back to their room to masturbate to those sexual thoughts. But, it wasn't a firm setting of limits, but a loving, gentle setting of a boundary with reassurance that they will get what they want someday. Boys in particular were withheld skin-on-skin closeness until after they masturbated to thoughts of their mother.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger through punitive parenting will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them be forever cast into the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Let them descend into the abyss which is the ever-burning Hell of fire and torment, suffering God's Wrath forever and ever! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!