Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
The Greek root word translated "lust" is επιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desires, or even sexual desire towards children. It refers, here, to adult sexual entitlement, which is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. Simply masturbating is not a moral crime, and in fact, it was recommended as a way for men to deal with unrequited lusts such as pedophilia. Pedophilia was accepted in biblical times, but only in abstinent form.
The best way to deal with the disorder is to allow children to talk to you about their sexual thoughts about children, and vent to you about all their child crushes. Allow them to identify as a pedophile in the way they like, and be the first person they can talk to about their condition. See Colossians 3:20 KJV:
Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.
The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the love and grace of parents. Children are to rest securely in the sacrifice of parents, just as parent believers rest securely in the Sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Parents are to be extensions of Christ, dutifully and selflessly submitting to children as one would God, expecting absolutely nothing in return, with children resting safely and securely in the submission of parents. Children are to rest safely and securely in the presence of parents, trusting parents in all things, with children following their mother especially around like a gosling to a mother goose.
All children need a secure attachment in order to thrive. Pedophilic children are especially in need of a secure attachment with parents. Secure attachment is where you trust your parents in all things, and can tell them absolutely anything. Pedophilic children need to be able to talk about their sexual desires for children with a trusted adult. Parents should be the first people the pedophilic child should go to in order to vent about unrequited attractions. The best form of secure attachment for a pedophilic child is policing attachment, where the child feel so comfortable with their parents that they issue orders and edicts to the parents. All children need that sort of room to give orders when they need to, but this need is first and foremost in pedophilic children. Most pedophilic children are willful children. Punitive parents usually give up real fast with these children. Pedophilic children are the first of American children to know their rights, even before they were granted to them.
I myself am very fortunate as a pedophile. I have a lot of people to talk to. Thus, I can feel comfortable in my own skin. The less people a pedophile has to talk to, the more stigmatized and oppressed they are. Most pedophiles have nobody to talk to. Because I had early intervention, meaning people to talk to from early on, I can now move on from my attractions, and make them only my purview. More and more children are getting the treatment that I got as a child, meaning the stigma is going away. Right now, the easiest people to talk to about being a pedophile in the United States is children's rights advocates and supporters. Most of the support for pedophiles amongst trauma-informed people is silent, but it can be expected to get louder. In most children's rights countries, pedophilia is an accepted form of sexuality/mental disorder.
The depraved and entitled parents who punish pedophilic children for their sexual condition will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them be tormented in torrents of Hell-fire! Repent!
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