Parent attraction: Why masturbatory fantasy of your children helps improve the father-child bond

Child sexual abuse is seen as a mystery that nobody wants to solve. Most people see adult fornicators as coming out of nowhere. Most child sexual abuse is committed by fathers or father-figures in the home. The fact of the matter is that all fathers, and all adults by extension, are at-risk for sexually abusing their children. A sexual abuser has repressed sexual entitlement that comes out on the child at the last minute. The problem, ultimately, is that fathers aren't meeting their sexual needs in relation to their children.

It says in Matthew 5:27-28 KJV:

Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery already in his heart. 

The Greek root word translated "lust" is επιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, or even sexual desire for children. Instead, this word refers to sexual entitlement, meaning sexual want, to the point of taking the first steps to approach a woman, or in this instance, a child, for sexual or flirtatious reasons. It is okay to look the look, or think the think. It just is not okay to approach the approach, or do the deed with a child. This also means your child.

Most adult men, namely fathers, repress part of their sex drive towards their children, and children in general. When this sex drive becomes relevant, due to being alone with a child, the parent/adult takes out their repressed sexual entitlement on their child, meaning the sexual entitlement that is repressed comes out sideways onto the child at the last minute. This can be prevented by fathers in particular going up and down their spine, finding their masturbatory fantasy about their child, and discharging it through solo masturbation.

Fantasizing sexually about one's child can also lead to a secure bond between fathers and children. Fathers are usually distant from their children because they perceive sexual attraction towards their child that they don't want. The key is to find that sexual attraction, and indulge in it through masturbatory fantasy. This should make you more comfortable with your attraction to your child, and by extension, make you more comfortable with your child. This is what we call pro-social fantasy here on children's rights grounds.

Having parent attraction, alone, is not a sin. However, approaching a child with parent attraction actually is a sin, and sexually interacting with a child is fornication. However, once you start fantasizing about children regularly, your sex drive becomes more manageable as a whole. I myself use the same method to deal with being a pedophile, and I usually am sexually calm and content. I might see a young girl that I like - I either look and move on, or look and save for later. The fact that I have an outlet, and that I use it, means I actually have zero entitlement in relation to children.

The depraved and decadent, defiled sex offenders who prey on children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into a Hell of fire and torrents! Repent!