Pro-social self-loathing: Proper self-parenting for attachment parents

Many people think parents should have the right to feel good about themselves and their parenting. This is a common entitled attitude among many parents, red or blue. The fact of the matter is that nobody has the right to feel good about themselves. Pro-social self-loathing is the collective individual policy of pro-spank, yet it is rarely applied outside of those circles. Applying pro-social self-loathing to parenting can also lead to more humility in children, as the pride in the exemplary figures in children's lives is broken down and disintegrated. It is not okay to be the adult in American society, and it will never be acceptable to identify as the adult, even if it is accepted widely in modern times.

It says in Romans 3:9-12 KJV:

What then? are we better than they? No, in no wise, for we have before proved Jews and Gentiles, that they are all under sin; As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one: There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God. They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.

This passage was written to Roman Christians, who were very prideful in their practice of Christianity. The Roman Christians thought they were the righteous ones above everyone else just because they were Christians. Today, this verse reflects what God thinks of humanity. God hates us all, so much that He doesn't want us to even exist. All mankind, by default, is marked for deletion, and is deserving of nothing but DEATH and PUNISHMENT merely for existing in relation to God and the Children He protects. God is ANGRY at the incursions of adult-kind onto child-kind, and seeks to convict all adults of their crime of existence in relation to children. Only a few adults will be convicted of their wretched existence in relation to God and the Children that He protects. The rest are marked for deletion, and will be disposed of promptly on their last day, or on the very last day.

The Greek root word denoting entitlement, including parental entitlement, in the New Testament, and cross-referencing the Tenth Commandment, is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers to, in the case of parental entitlement, officially speaking, wanting things from children, to the point of imposition. Unofficially, this word refers to not wanting anything from children. It is good not to want anything in life from children, but since we all as depraved and decadent adults want things from children, so we should ask politely for what we want from them, and work to gain cooperation from them instead of demanding cooperation from them like an entitled brat. Any time you blow a fuse with your child, you are entitled. Thus, if any want from a child leads to a fuse, don't want it, and avoid that want at all costs. 

On the other hand, Christian love is denoted by the Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao) and refers to prioritizing your neighbor first, and yourself last. Love is not just an emotion or an action, but instead is a state of being for the Christian, where everyone around you comes first in terms of needs, and your needs come last. Love does not come from a place of pride, but instead comes from a place of conviction. Love comes from a convicted place where you come to the knowledge that you are a worthless sinner who is deserving of nothing, and thus you come to the conclusion that you owe everyone your service as due penance for your wretched existence.

Children can learn a lot from an understated adult. Most prideful children come from prideful parents who punish their children when children usurp the pride of their parents. When children are exposed to the example of a humble, understated adult, they grow up to become humble, understated adults. All you have to do as a parent is lose that self-esteem kick and learn to loathe yourself in a healthy way, not defending anything you do, even when confronted. The goal is to not get defensive even when falsely accused of child abuse, instead calmly answering to the court in everything. I myself answer to the court whenever I am suspected or accused of child abuse, because no abuser cooperates with the authorities when accused. I recently was investigated for child abuse, and cleared of the charges I was brought up on. I did do something, but it was summary harassment, and the statute of limitations for summary offenses has passed. When you answer to the court for your misdeeds or suspected misdeeds, your child will see you, and emulate your pro-social honest attitude.

I myself am a flawed and entitled adult, always wanting things from Children. As a pedophilic adult who has a sexual self-interest in children under age 18, I am entitled to and deserving of nothing in relation to children. I have sexually pestered and harassed many children, and yet they all forgive me. I am grateful for their forgiveness, which I am not deserving of. I am grateful for the support I receive as someone struggling with pedophilic disorder as a mental illness. I admit that I am a mentally disturbed pedophile, and understand that I am not entitled to any sexual interaction with a child, even if they want it. I am an entitled adult and an abuser, like all of us as adults who are abusers toward children merely for existing within their midst. I hate myself as the entitled adult that I am, merely for my wretched existence, and am deserving of absolutely nothing from children. I am wicked and evil just for wanting anything from them. I am a danger to children merely for my existence as a sexually self-interested adult towards them. If I ever want a friendship with a child, I will just have to work to earn affection and respect from them, instead of be pushy about affection.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke their children to anger through punitive parenting will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them be forever cast into the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Let them descend into the abyss which is the ever-burning Hell of fire and torment, suffering God's Wrath forever and ever! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!