Religious child abuse of pedophilic children: Understanding the hysteria against pedophiles

Many people think pedophiles are the ones abusing children, and that being a pedophile is a choice. Some others defend pedophiles thinking the most oppressed of pedophiles are sex offenders. Most pro-pedophile advocacy has been focused on sex offenders and their "right" not to be registered. This setup in society does a disservice to the most oppressed of pedophiles - those that are still children.

What is pedophilia? Pedophilia is the primary or exclusive sexual attraction to children, and becomes pedophilic disorder when active in causing disruption or harm to the pedophile or others, including children. Pedophilia is ultimately arrested sexual development, usually associated with a developmental disorder such as autism or ADHD. Pedophiles are, developmentally speaking, at the level of the age they are attracted to. Most pedophilic children are not nasty or rebellious children, but tend to be shy and introverted. Most pedophiles today were, at the time of their teenage years, the type of teenager that didn't want to grow up. 

Pedophile hysteria, at the core, is a form of religious sexual abuse. Children with the disorder are singled out by their abusive religious parents and shamed for masturbation and sexual fantasy. Many times, these spiritually abusive parents also sexually abuse their children. One passage in the Bible constantly used against pedophilic children by their abusive religious parents is Matthew 5:27-28 KJV:

Ye have heard that it was said of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. 

The Greek root word translated "lust" is επιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) does not refer to ordinary sexual desire, but to desire to the point of taking the first steps to approach a child with sexual intent. The English Standard Version instead prohibits looking on a woman "with lustful intent", and that translation is more accurate. If you do not have intent to approach a child sexually, or treat the child in a sexually objectifying manner, you are free to look the look, and think the think, meaning fantasize about the child you see in public or elsewhere in life. Pedophilic children are being taught that all sexual fantasy about a child is sin, causing the bulk of them to become atheist or else secular. 

Many pedophiles are shamed completely by their abusive religious parents, being forced to pray away the pedophile. There is no evidence that prayer takes away sexual preferences, as nothing does - it is God's will that a child is born a pedophile, so we should not question it. But, many pedophilic children are taught otherwise by their abusive religious parents, and are given false hope that a desire that can go nowhere can be wished away with prayer.

Ultimately, the outward hysteria in society comes from the abusive religious parents of pedophiles deflecting onto their victim. "No, you are the pedophile, for even thinking such a thing" is the defense of an ardent sexual abuser of children, and that abuser designation of a victim or witness comes from abusive religious parents of pedophiles blaming their own children for their abuse, using their pedophilic preferences as an easy target to deflect blame away from themselves. Ultimately, abusive religious parents blame their own children, then monkey see, monkey do, with all abusers using a valid mental health label as a tool to deflect from their own abuse.

I myself am a pedophile. I am fortunate to have the support I have for the disorder. I have plenty of people to reach out to that I told, especially my mother and my therapist. Since I had support from my parents and the mental health system here in Pennsylvania, I am not as affected by society's view of me, meaning it doesn't make me self-conscious at all. I know that it is okay to feel this way about children, meaning I am not guilty for unchosen traits, and I know that. I don't care what people think of me, because under my Christian family values, I am not entitled to everyone liking me. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled sexual abusers who defile themselves next to children, and then blame pedophiles, will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them BURN in a fire of torrents! Repent!