Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.
The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the love and grace of parents. This is a trusting form of rest, where children feel completely safe and in respite with parents, with parents being a safe place for children to cling to and vent on. Attachment parenting was the norm in biblical times. Think a Christian mother holding pales of water, fetching water to drink and to cook with, with a young child wrapped in her bosom with swaddling blankets, and a nude older child following alongside her. Children feel safe in close range, or in closeness period, with mothers, and this enables children to follow the example of fathers. Mothers nurture, fathers encourage. Minor children cannot be ordered around lawfully and bindingly, as children are not legal subjects under the defense of infancy under the Law. Ask, and you shall receive from your child, and if not, they are to be righteously assumed not to be able to listen due to immature development, with the rare parental request being a righteous test. For the most part, apart from situations involving the safety or chastity of the child, children should be able to develop without adult interference, with the parent stating a request or plead when necessary, when a want is unattainable or unsafe. Minor and dependent children can enforce law on their parents to self-advocate a need or benign want.
The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to damages, meaning the slightest of offense perceived by the child, including the slightest of offensive touch or contact perceived by the child. The commandment in vs. 21 is the commandment to love your neighbor stated in the negative. Wherever it states in the Bible not to provoke someone to anger, it is implied that you must love them with the Agape love that you show your neighbor, as denoted by the Greek word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao). Paul here was lifting up the Law against punishing or controlling your child, which was considered kidnapping, meaning grand theft/damages against the child, due to the child's vulnerable status in society. The seven verses in Proverbs that depict the rod of correction are repealed verses, as they refer to a dated form of judicial corporal punishment - 40 minus 1 lashes with the rod of correction, as a last warning before being put to death. King Solomon was surely anti-spanking himself, but in a posh, elite type of way. All the biblical writers were anti-spanking, as no Jew wanted to be seen as pro-spanking even then.
I am a depraved and entitled sinner in relation to children, and am deserving of DEATH and DESTRUCTION merely for existing in relation to children. A child owes me nothing. I owe a child everything I can give them, which usually means personal space. I am a pedophile, and am guilty of antisocial "flirt". Other adults can admit their sins to Christ just like I do, and they should, and they must in order to be saved. If you hate children, you hate God.
The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Let them descend into the abyss that is the Hell of fire and torment, suffering God's Wrath for all eternity! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!
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