Sunday, August 15, 2021

Dress policing: Why children have the right to wear (or not wear) whatever they want

Many parents do not like the idea of children being undressed. Adults in general avoid the mere image of a child naked. However, child nudity itself is a biblical concept in the positive sense, depending on how far down in the context you want to read. Telling a child how to wear their wardrobe is sin, apart from the secular laws.

Adult sexual entitlement is sexual entitlement directed towards children by adults. It is denoted by the Greek root word πγεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés), and refers here to wanting children to "cover up" lest it inflame the passions of adults, to the point of seeking to impose said want onto a child, leading to abuse by way of offense perceived by the entitlement. Shaming a child for his/her wardrobe choices is a moral crime, particularly if it offends the child. Children should be able to be naked on a beach, and not have to worry about being raped, because you don't accidentally rape people - it can easily be prevented without blaming children. Just don't be there if it triggers your sexual disorder. 

It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:
Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to providing custody. Providing custody in biblical times meant ultimate freedom in relation to mothers in particular, while sheltered at the same time by her protection, including from fathers. This freedom included body freedom, meaning, yes, children were naked growing up, and this was designed for ultimate bonding through skin to skin contact. Fathers often had issues with finding the nudity of their child as sexual in nature, in which case mothers were right there to protect the children, and the children themselves just didn't care - they weren't going to let a sexually entitled adult keep them down. They ruled the adults then, but from beneath. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) refers to the offenses in the legal context of the Bible, meaning the torts and damages imposed under the Eighth Commandment, with that including the slightest of offense perceived by the child, based on entitlement imposed.

For pedophilic parents, know that there are better ways to relate to a child than sex. Go for a walk, go out to eat at a restaurant, and form a friendship with your child that keeps back the sexual connotations. Most pedophiles who find their children attractive only find them so at the connotational level, meaning they only offend against children when they are alone with them unsupervised, usually in a dressing or undressed situation like bath time. If you are attracted to your children, have someone else give them a bath or help them change, and then there is no room for a sexual offense. Children, however, have the right to wear whatever they like, or nothing at all if at home, regardless of their age, and if you don't like it, hit the pike. Children have the right to choose their wardrobe, and maybe you have a preference. Let's keep it at that. I myself have the disorder, and no child dresses for me. They dress for themselves, and they aren't there for me or my own child. They simply exist as an autonomous individual. They simply are attractive in a connotational way, like spray tan oil. The most abuse I struggle with occasionally is a glare from a young girl who might be sensitive to looking, so I look away in that instance and not shame her in my mind for wearing an attractive swimsuit or outfit. Maybe I want a young girl to look that way, but maybe another girl wears a hood in summertime. Then I'm concerned as to why she needs to dress in layers, as that is in fact a sign of sexual abuse.

The depraved, sexually entitled adults who shame children's bodies and wardrobe will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn and rot in the lake of fire and brimstone, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!

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