Why "back talk" isn't sin for a child

Many parents abuse their children, meaning most in the United States. 94% of parents punish their children, with 1/3 possibly being in violation of the law while doing so. My parents followed the law while spanking and punishing me, with few obscure exceptions. Talking back to parents was the number one reason I was punished.

It says in Ephesians 6:1-4 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, as is right. Honor thy father and mother, as is the first commandment with promise; That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long upon the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest and trust, in the care and safety of parents, being able to be oneself in relation to children, confiding absolutely anything in relation to them, owing nothing in relation to parents, nonetheless being convicted by gratitude to give back to your parents, and listen to them, because they are so kind and warm to you, being charitable towards their children. Christian love and charity is referred to in the New Testament by the Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao) and refers to dutiful and selfless submission towards a child as their enemy, being convicted of ones mere sinful existence in relation to children, sacrificing for oneself just as Christ sacrificed for His children, rendering yourself beneath your child, devaluing yourself as her servant and indentured servant, paying due penance for your wretched existence as an adult in relation to children, ministering to and serving the every need of children, with said child being extended by God for care and protection, expecting absolutely nothing in return.

The Greek root word translated "nurture" means παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to the chastening of the Lord, specifically for parents in relation to children, with parents being centered and disciplined in relation to children in a warm way that allows for children to be listened to and validated by parents, with children learning self-control and self-discipline in exemplary format. The Greek root word translated "admonition" is νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to the word "no" and its various variants, and/or to any setting of limits and boundaries. The word "no" should be rare, as children are immature and blameless, and cannot cease certain behaviors as a result of their developmental capacity, meaning lack thereof.

Back talk was encouraged in ancient Israelite culture, as well as adjoining churches. When a child talked back, many times with throwing a crying fit or even hitting the mother, the mother assumed the child had a need, much like diagnosing infant needs. Fathers were interactive in disciplining their child through positive encouragement. In fact, most child abuse that did, in fact, occur then was false encouragement of children, particularly fathers corrupting the morals of and perhaps sexually abusing her. Usually, children were just amped up with assertiveness, meaning they were encouraged in getting what they need by parents, namely mothers, providing when a child screamed and cries, diagnosing what the issue was that was the antecedent for the cries, then replenishing the need. Surrender to parents meant listening to parents automatically, by instinct, perhaps even when you have another opinion, because you trust parents due to them providing your every need, including attachment needs such as benign want.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them be tormented and languish in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death for Satan and his accomplices! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!