Children first, parents last: Why parents are servants to their children

 Many parents believe they are in charge, and come first in their home. They hate their children by way of controlling and punishing children. 94% of parents punish their children, according to research at the Family Research Laboratory in New Hampshire. Children first, parents last (Col. 3:21; 6:1-3). Those are the roles, in the biblical context.

The Greek root word translated Ephesians 6:1-4 KJV:

Children, obey your parents, as is right in the Lord. Honor thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with a promise; That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long upon the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure attachment and rest in the love and grace of parents, namely in the form of pro-social pedophilia, in siphon format, where parents become safe people to talk to, and children's energy and exuberance is listened to and validated by parents. Parents are mere servants to children, and are to be completely selfless, meaning shut up and controlled in relation to children, meaning being a good example. It is a sacrificial example, much as Christ sacrificed for His children. He was nailed to a cross, and rose on the third day. That sort of sacrifice should be the goal for every parent...and children simply rest in it, owing nothing to parents, and parents owing everything to them. 

Selflessness is a trait to model in your own example as a parent to your children. This means putting your child first and you last. I am entitled to nothing from your children, they deserve everything from me, including respect and reverence. Love for a child is submission to their every need as their enemy, knowing that one is evil, wicked, and entitled in nature, admitting ignorance as to what it is like to be a child, leading to servitude and sacrifice for one's child.

Children, however, do need discipline, meaning limits. The rod of correction is spelled out in the latter clause of Eph. 6:4, and adult self-discipline passed down through co-regulation is denoted by the Greek root word παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to parents passing down attitudes of discipline and self-control through exemplary and direct teaching methods, with children learning in a homeschool, using the Socratic framework of interrogative discussion of biblical morality. Usually, discipline came in the form of positive encouragement, namely patting the child on the back, or more likely holding and snuggling the child, as attachment parenting was the norm in ancient Jewish culture. This encouragement was known as the rod of pleasantness. The Greek root word νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to the rod of severity, meaning simply a verbal limit or boundary, namely a negative one, namely the word "no" and its various variants. It was not backed up by any punishment whatsoever, as punishment was only acceptable in the Early Christian context in the case of an adult being proven guilty of a criminal offense under the Law, where the punishment would be excommunication from the Christian Churches of God. 

The rod of correction, in Christian households, was non-binding righteous judgment of children, in fork format. Children are exempt from righteous moral legal judgment, and were judged separately, much in a way that a therapist would be discerning concerning a child's upset or anger, or rather their upset in general, especially mothers, but fathers also, as could have nurturing contact with the child, such as going places with older children, and gentle instruction in the Law. However, mothers spent most of the tine with younger children. Mothers and fathers both could legally correct children verbally, namely by saying "no" when absolutely warranted. The idea was to set negative boundaries rarely, and avoid conflict with children, and instead focus on the positive qualities of children, and encourage them. Punishment comes in the form of self-punishment for thing we do wrong in life, and modeling that attitude of self-discipline and self-restraint to children, meaning children emulate that example automatically because they trust parents and have a good relationship with them, where they can tell parents anything, including things society would punish, and they would be sheltered and not punished by children, and listened to like a sounding board. Most of the time, that's all a child needs, and then when they want advice, they can ask for advice.

The comfort and attachment needs of children come first, and the convenience of parents comes last. We hate parents here at Anti-Parental Entitlement, meaning all who endorse entitlement, meaning all who endorse entitlement and abuse. Send them to me to judge, and I will condemn them to their fate, and God will send them down. You shall not exist, but since you exist, we hope you exist in a 2" by 4" cell by the end of this legislative year. 

:Let them BURN! Let them SUFFER! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!