Many parents in the United States appoint themselves to a position of power and control, meaning either authoritarian or authoritative parenting. Many believe that the Bible allows for parental authority, when, in fact, the Bible prescribes the opposite.
Christian love is a selfless state. It says in 2 Corinthians 13:4-8 KJV:
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not, charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; rejoiceth not in inequity, but rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. Charity never faileth: but whether they be prophesies, they shall fail; whether they be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
The Greek root word translated "charity", denoting Christian love, is αγαπαο (Latin: agapao) and refers to a form of servitude, meaning righteous enslavement. In reality, it is simply a very selfless parent that allows the child to guide you to their needs, instead of the reverse. It is a convicted parent, meaning a parent that loathes their nature as such.
It is a doting, listening attitude where parents stand-by children, and are there to listen to children, and assist them with life. It says in Colossians 3:20 KJV:
Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord.
The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to surrender to parents, prompted by parents surrendering to children. It is a form of pro-social pedophilia, meaning in siphon format. The servile nature of parents entails being their, selflessly, to be safe adults that are there to listen and validate, like a sounding board, and otherwise model to children discipline and self-control, as denoted in Ephesians 6:4 KJV:
And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to anger, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
The Greek root word translated "nurture" is παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to co-regulation, meaning centering oneself as a parent, accepting the chastening of the Lord, and modeling said discipline to children. The Greek root word translated "admonition" is νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to simple verbal correction, namely the word "no" and its various variants. Correction of children in 1st Century Christian homes was rare, and only brief enough to redirect the behavior.
Parents are to show self-control, and not lash out in anger or sexual violence towards their children. Christian discipline in parents is selfless, in an hourglass way, and can be understood as "I am evil" gaslighting. This means coming to the knowledge that you don't mean well around your child, and that no adult can truly mean well, and that any adult is capable of harm, as well as the fact that adults can never again know what it is like to be a child. The idea is to be convicted of being a depraved, wicked parent in this regard, and work on it by avoiding antisocial behaviors such as punishment such as spanking or false imprisonment, or permissiveness such as corruption, peerification, or spousification. The idea is to be ashamed of being the flawed and hopeless parent that you are, then build yourself back up.
Time-out is healthy, including maybe sitting down and having a snack or soda, or even pro-social sexual fantasy (in the case of pedophilic parents). Many times, time-out includes turning one's anger at their child into a jurisdictional peacekeeper about something else entirely, in a way that the child is not impacted at all. Selfless parenting need not be completely selfless, or else it turns selfish nonetheless.
Selfless parenting simply is about avoidance of pride in parenting, meaning humility and understatement are attachment parenting values. Pride is boasting in a way that makes you stand out in a way that seeks attention and glamour from society, demanding rights because "I am a good parent, and only other adults harm children". It is adult guilt, meaning knowing that we adults oppress and abuse children, thus paying penance for your own individual sins and abuse against children (which we all are guilty of).
Let the entitled parents BURN! Let them languish in the lake of fire and burning sulfur! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!
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