"The police are the enemy": The dangers of ostracizing an essential profession

 Many here at children's rights have stopped hating pedophiles due to my presence here, and now hate the police. Tall cops, wide cops, and so forth, to protect them against something that I, yes, certainly find utterly repugnant, as a policy - as do many cops forced to do it. Does profession matter in what makes someone an abuser, perhaps in level of empathy involved?

My abusive father was a therapist, meaning he worked with survivors, and others suffering from mental illness, at a partial hospital program. These were people with very severe mental health needs. He then became a schoolteacher. He had no problem getting angry with students, meaning he didn't, but told the boss what to do. Then, he got home, and punished me. 

To understand child abuse, you have to understand stress, and how different abusers handle it. It is like putting food into a wastebasket. The child is the emotional wastebasket of the adult, in all cases of abuse, in all levels of abuse. Even sexual abuse has that component, meaning I would try to run off with a young girl when I was stressed, and she was just there being nice to me (antisocial "welcome", in misinterpretation fashion, that emphasize wishful thinking).

Many police do struggle with abuse situations, and/or defend them. The same can be said about most any occupation in the country. Those closely related to children's rights are much less likely to, but even some Children and Youth Services caseworkers spank their children. Also, most all major religious demographics except Jews spank their children. Among men, the most vocal against spanking to be pedophiles to varying degrees. I cannot, viscerally speaking, get angry at a child - just, no. It's just wrong to me to expose a child to that heinous venom. I just fall asleep when overwhelmed, or else am simply tired and aloof. I think all adults should have that level of entitlement, meaning lack thereof, towards children...I won't get angry at the parents these days unless they refuse to be gentle parents, and not for my own purposes, but might make a snipe, presumptuous accusation as a protest that I was finally being put in my place, meaning not able to see her again.

To me, treating a child like a wastebasket is pure horror and disgusting (just my perspective). Put a bullet in the parents, and watch the blood flow. It is analogous to how you feel about my sexual fantasies about children, in the reverse. I just try to understand knowing I won't...Ultimately, all abuse comes from the same entitled place - anger, frustration, stress, which can come out in different ways in different parents. It comes out in me in the form of a sexual/romantic fixation on a child, whereas most parents spank or punish their children.