Friday, March 12, 2021

The relationship with my mother - in religious terms

 It appears that some in the community want me to lose a mother, namely Nadine Block. She stigmatizes my clinical disability that is pedophilia. Apparently, my mother committed pro-social battery by pulling my hair out of despair. Nadine Block feigns concern by prying into these issues with the law. At this point, I think the authorities in Delaware County, Pennsylvania, are keeping her in a bubble. I do resemble an abuser of hers due to the nature of my autism.

I generally believe in self-report in terms of even child victims of parental abuse, and there are reasons why. A predator looking into the home could, in fact, jump to making an overzealous and hasty child abuse report. These abusers tend to be pedophiles, and the type that aren't virtuous - like I was. I was a predatory dating pedophile, targeting young girls and asking them for their number or other contact information. My mother does not approve of the existence of the attractions, at all. She thinks its another thing I self-diagnose with, and the condition worries her, but more so where I disclose. She has stated that I demonstrated to her that I am safe around children, by way of me being honest to her about my improvement. It isn't something I defend against her, but something I say anything to her about, and she'll listen. She draws the line at where I offend and abuse a child, in which case the family consensus is that "you're on your own". My mother won't support me if I ever think that abusing a child is okay...The "your on your own" attitude of my relatives is liberating in that I can improve myself in this regard. 

It says in Ephesians 6:1 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is right.

Most everything I say about the ideals I see in the Bible apply to my relationship with my mother. The Greek root word υπακουυο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to surrender coming from surrender, namely secure attachment. I see my mother as a pal, meaning a friend to lean on and talk to. She is a progressive Christian with Methodist roots (many of Matthew's beliefs actually lead to nostalgia - my mother believes in a loving God, and believes away from me). My mother is anti-spanking.

She is an autism support teacher for middle school students. She does not work in a restraint-prone area, and actually works from home due to social distancing. 

She simply pulled my hair, which could be considered either harassment or disorderly conduct in Pennsylvania, depending on which citation fit better. It would be $300, and only if I perceived it to be harassment, which I simply perceived as a pro-social assault. She was bombarded at every level by her child screaming at nowhere, felt compelled to do something (nothing wasn't an answer). She surely does not believe in what she did, even for a minor child. She may have slapped me a few times as a child, but it was out of regret, thus pro-social assault in the case that it was illegal...My mother only has a medical power of attorney, and so the only route of justice would be the police, and the police have better things to with than a mother pulling her son's hair out of frustration, even if it was technically illegal. That happens in many countries where spanking is banned, perhaps countries with more cash-strapped governments where struggling parental behavior is an underbelly. 

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