I start out listening intently and actively on a children's rights screen, and showing the fellow survivor my welcome. When they show that they don't want to listen, I listen to that, and instead interrogate, using "presume" gaslighting in harsh, brusque application, in either the positive or the negative.
Most insults I just brush off and don't react to. I'm not a snowflake like that.
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