Why a parent should not want anything from their child (preferences instead)

Many parents, particularly the pro-spanking ones, want things from their children. The concept of wanting things from children is hard-engrained into American culture. I want nothing from a child, at all. I have pedophilic disorder, and suffer from an adult sexual entitlement/child abuse problem. Our country, as a whole, has an entitlement problem in relation to children. 

That's why the good Lord handed down the Tenth Commandment, as it says in Exodus 20:17 KJV:

Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, nor covet thy neighbor's manservant, nor maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor anything that is thy neighbour's.

The Hebrew word לחמוד (Latin: lachmod) and refers to not only wanting anything from a child, but wanting something from a child to the point of seeking to impose said item onto a child, in the form of theft/abuse. This is cross-referenced in the New Testament by the Greek root word πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers to the attitude of "I am a good, loving parent, and so I am deserving of things from my child". You are not entitled to anything from your child, as I am not entitled to anything from a child, and I am you in terms of obligations in relation to children - equal pedophile responsibilities leads to equal pedophile rights, in terms of how we treat entitled parents and adults. I have the condition, and it is just like any other struggle as an entitled adult in relation to children - except, from how it sounds, physically aggressive parents struggle more.

This concept can be understood by the moral legal concept of line of intent, meaning guilty intent (mens rea) leads to guilty action (actus reus). Wanting something from children is normal as an adult, no matter what it is that the adult wants. All adults, by their very sin nature, want to control children, thus why God wants parents especially, but also all adults, to submit to God through their child. All want in relation to children should be centered away from said child, including physically and sexually controlling wants as as tendencies to spank, punish, or sexually harass/assault children.

Entitlement, in a parent, can be gauged affirmatively in linguistic application by way of the frequent use of the word "want". 

Do not say: "I don't want you to eat now. Dinner is almost ready"

Say instead: "Honey, dinner will be ready in a few minutes. I'd prefer you put the popcorn down and get fastened up for supper"

The test, when setting a limit with a child, is what would you do when said child refused to heed said limitation of yours? Would you lash out? Punish them? Then that is an entitled want. The guilty intent then consists of recklessness as a parent in terms of guarding one's emotions that may inflict abuse upon a child victim. Once the damages are perceived by the child, the adult's intent is tarred by parent/adult entitlement, and will be until their last day, or on the first day of reckoning - when they submit to God through their child, and learn not to be punitive and/or permissive parents.

LET THEM BURN! Let them suffer in the lake of fire and brimstone, suffering the second death! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!