What is a children's rights conservative?

Many people think children's rights is a liberal/progressive idea. It is progressive in that it would be a change for a group of people here in America. Children are born into both liberal and conservative families, so why not have a movement that represents ALL Americans, not just the social justice values of a few. Demolishing movements from the outside doesn't work, and I have no agenda to demolish children's rights. My agenda is catapult children's rights knowledge to mainstream political discussion, as an issue that all Americans can unite behind.

The difference between me and all the liberal children's rights advocates is the role of the concept of self-esteem. I don't bring it up much because I don't believe it even exists except as a fraudulent concept that cheats you into wanting more stuff. Some people benefit from it, but that is due to traumatic reasons specific to a specific religious trauma that is rare, not all trauma survivors/victims.

The belief behind children's rights Christianity/conservatism is that parents especially, but all adults, must admit their depraved sin nature in relation to children. We believe in original sin, but use pro-social swatch to charge ADULTS with it, not children. My belief is that we are totally depraved beings as adults in relation to children, and are deserving of punishment merely for existing in relation to children. 

We children's rights conservatives apply one biblical Greek word in the negative, which is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers here, in the negative, to want avoidance. I am not to want anything from a child, at least not to the point of propositioning her. I don't want anything from a child, including even what I really want.

I am there, at total acceptance of children, which comes from total submission to children. It is a reverent feeling about children where the law is set down, and you just respect their presence in your community, not bothering them with annoying flirtations.

Let's catapult children's rights to ALL of America, right now! That's my plan, but I don't expect everything to come to fruition. Just watch the change go by, and know you created it from behind the scenes.

Why NOT to ditch the children's rights movement

Many people who support children's rights see our movement as ineffectual, and enemies hate it outright. Most Americans are influenced by children's rights thinkers and advocates. There is a reason for why children don't have rights in this country.

Blame Congress and lawmakers. The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child has not been ratified yet, except for the optional protocol on sexual exploitation. Otherwise, lawmakers are aloof to the issue of children's rights. Many want to ban it, but find there are other issues that need to be dealt with first.

First, let's see universal healthcare expanded, and universal daycare vouchers being implemented. Certain things have to happen before spanking can be banned, based on the history of the development of countries. 

We are a Christian nation, meaning the Christian community basically takes up the whole country. Most parents get their parenting advice from the Bible, and the Bible, when understood at the lowest contextual level, is a completely pro-child, anti-spanking document, hence anti-spanking attitudes do fit with our culture. We just have to understand as Americans that we are constantly evolving in our values by learning new things about our values as a country. Where do these values come from? The Bible - even if you are an atheist, the Bible is why you behave civilly and decently.

Ultimately, lawmakers are to blame. Too much on their plate, meaning they don't see the importance of children's rights legislation apart from sexual purity norms. The change will probably be gradual, not sudden, meaning we will keep passing laws here in Pennsylvania restricting what is physical abuse, until all of it is banned, and by then, we will be ready.

But really, it's 2022, and it is okay to strike your child? Gimme a break. Parents today are way more entitled than they were in biblical times.

Total acceptance of children (coming from total submission)

Many parents think they love their children. Most do not, by the biblical standard of love. Love is acceptance, but how do you get there? Total submission to children leads to total acceptance. The doctrine of mutual submission is God's plan for parents and children.

Every single parent and adult is guilty in relation to children, and is deserving of DEATH and DESTRUCTION merely for existing in relation, with parents being meek and shamefaced in relation to children for their depraved sin nature. Parents and adults are to prioritize the needs of children above their own, to the point of dutiful and selfless surrender and submission to the child's every vulnerable need from above, and children resting securely in the unconditional Christian love of parents, with this love being denoted by the Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao). Parents are to sacrifice for their children in the spirit that Christ sacrificed for His children. See Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things: as this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the love and grace of parents. Attachment parenting was the norm in biblical times, with children up until adulthood wrapped up in swaddling blankets, held close to the bosom of mothers, with children going completely in the nude wherever they were, with children soaking up much skin-to-skin closeness with mothers. Children were weaned from mother's breastmilk at age 3, and before then were treated as infants, with the terrible twos being seeing simply as a child crying out for love.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to provocations to anger, as defined as the slightest of personal offenses perceived by the child. This commandment was intended by the Apostle Paul as a prohibition on all form of punitive parenting, including any form of punishment and control such as spanking and corporal punishment. This verse was intended as a rebuke to Greek Christians who held onto the pagan ritual of spanking children, which they justified with Scripture in the book of Proverbs. The seven texts in the book of Proverbs that mention the rod of correction are repealed verses, as they refer to a dated legal punishment - the 40 minus 1 lashes with the rod of correction. Only ADULT children received the rod of correction from parents, and only when convicted of a criminal offense as adjudicated in a court of law. Minor children in the Old Testament could not be charged with any criminal act or civil wrong, as parents were to apologize in court for their mistakes, perhaps with their life if the child committed criminal offenses. No capital or corporal punishment existed in the Early Christian church communities. 

Very few adults accept children, but those who fully accept children are silent and shamefaced in relation to children. Child acceptance is a silent endeavor, where you are shut up by the Lord for being non-entitled at the parent level. It is the attitude that you are entitled to nothing from children, but grateful for all the undeserving trust and care that they show you, for a child has the right to leave their parents and other adults in the dust, driving them aground and forgetting about them, striking them with fear of alliances, convicting them with their pro-social alienation. We few non-entitled adults are shut up by the Lord, for a child owes us nothing, and we owe them everything we can towards them. Adults abstain. Children self-protect. The role of children is to righteously terrorize, and the role of adults is to be struck with terror, tip-toeing, towing the line to please children, living in constant reverent fear and terror, but not complaining one bit. One cry from a child should be petrifying enough to strike reverent terror in the hearts of adults, drawing them in, issuing lawful and binding orders as to their needs, shutting up adults as to any resistance and defiance to the Divine Authority that is the child's needs. God shows Himself in the most vulnerable of human beings.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Let them descend into the Hell of fire and torment, suffering God's Wrath for all eternity! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!

Why parent coaching can help with treating pedophiles (and preventing abuse)

Many people think a pedophile is not a parent, and the two are antonyms. I am the parent hater in chief here, as I was abused by parents. A pedophile is simply an implied label for a certain type of parent whose attachment to their child is sexually-oriented.

The average pedophile is clinically a parent, but one whose attachment to children, usually all children, is conflated with sexuality. Pedophilia itself is simply a thread running up the backside of the brain, meaning a parental cord. That's why parent coaching worked wonders for me, even though I am not a parent in the legal sense, even if I might be naturally towards all parents.

How did parent coaching help me? A parent coach whose office was in Shillington, Pennsylvania, a suburb of my hometown of Reading, Pennsylvania, worked with both my trauma and my pedophilic disorder, in different boxes, but together nonetheless. 

For most attached parents, parenting and trauma are two different boxes, but related nonetheless. Pedophilia was treated as being a natural parent to all children. I was confronted on my thinking errors, planning a sleepover actively with a crush I had at the local swimming association. 

This advice, which was that I was not thinking realistically, sent me down a train of thought like descending down a path to the bottom of a ravine, where the only way was up. Scaring my crush, who appeared to me and gave me the shock of my life, laying out her court-space, setting me alight. I ran around with the fire of her vulnerable words of "what do you want with me?". Soon after that, I started studying the Bible after reading a book about how the "rod verses" in Proverbs don't command spanking, Thy Rod and Thy Staff They Comfort Me: Christians and the spanking controversy, which allowed me to become the Christian I needed to be, and then the conservative Christian I really needed to be. I see the Bible differently than most gentle parenting Christians - as Law, meaning a system of jurisprudence known as Christian law. Christian law, by my understanding, is all of the commands in the New Testament, referencing to Jewish law in the Old Testament. I have memorized all the commands I need to know, and that a pro-spanking parent needs to know.

Parent coaching is something that starts your journey, not defines it. It is a little boost that gets you to think for yourself as a parent, meaning a pedophile in my case. I was a wreck then, and a menace to children, meaning I was literally scheming an opportunity to snuggle with a young girl with sexually entitled intent, rationalizing that it must be normal somehow for a 16-year-old adult (in that situation) to be co-sleeping next to a young girl who isn't legally his child, for means of creating a spousal relationship that isn't there.

Parent coaching, in this case, could have saved a few children their lives. For a while there during the coaching, I was a compliant abuser, meaning I was an abuser until a child set a firm limit, then I backed off, but the child had to set it, which to me is a hard lesson with the child above all other authority in relation to them, setting the boundaries, and me taking note of where they are. Under my current Christian convictions, it is a shame when a child has to be the one to set you straight, as children shouldn't have that responsibility - YOU as the parent should learn yourself.

I now wear my pedophilic tendencies on the surface, meaning everyone who is observant enough can see them based on who I am looking at in public. I am okay with questions, in which case I will answer to the court to ease the concerns of my neighbor. Nobody asks. Children do notice, but they don't care. They just look briefly, then look away.

Pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder involving sexual attachment to children leading to a primary preference for children under age 14. Most adults have sexual attractions to children - usually secondary, and to teenagers - and the best thing for such an attraction is to wear it on the surface, so you have control over it, as when you bury an attraction, it controls you. I myself am aware to the level where I can control complete where I go when left to my own accord (and not under gaslighting duress), and I actively seek out pedophilic fantasies because those are the ones I can't do in real life, so I do them in fantasy instead.

The sexually entitled adults/fornicators who sexually assault and rape children will not inherit the Kingdom of God! So you were "in the wrong place, at the wrong time"? Why were you even there? Let the depraved and defiled adult fornicators towards children BURN in everlasting Hell-fire, suffering God's Wrath for all eternity! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand! Just don't abuse a child, and you don't have anything to worry about, as long as you work for Jesus and not Satan. 

Why attachment parenting is proper Christian parenting

Many parents use the Bible as an excuse for abusing children, including through spanking and corporal punishment. Many parents think biblical times were harsh for children. The fact of the matter is that attachment parenting was the norm in ancient Israel and adjoining churches.

Every single parent and adult is guilty in relation to children, and is deserving of DEATH and DESTUCTION merely for existing in relation to children, and is to be meek and shamefaced in relation to children, prioritizing the child's needs first, and your own last, to the point of surrender and submission to the every need and benign want of children, as their enemy, knowing nothing ever again about what it is like to be a child, with children resting in the unconditional Christian love and grace of parents. Parents sacrifice for children in the spirit that Christ sacrificed for His children. See Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the love and grace of parents. Attachment parenting was the norm in biblical times, with children up until adulthood wrapped up in swaddling blankets next to mothers, with children being weaned from breastmilk at age 3, and with older children playing outside in the supervision of Christian mothers by day, then retreating to the rest and respite of mothers by night, co-sleeping next to parents right up until adulthood, feeling safe and secure in relation to parents.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to provocations to anger against children, as defined as the slightest of personal offenses perceived by the child. This commandment was intended by the Apostle Paul and the legal context in which he was writing from as prohibiting all punitive parenting, meaning any punishment or control in parenting. The Apostle Paul was rebuking here Greek Christians who were misusing the book of Proverbs as a justification for their pagan ritual of spanking children to "make them chaste". The "rod verses" in Proverbs, meaning all seven of them, are repealed verses, as they refer to a dated legal punishment - the 40 minus 1 lashes with the rod of correction. A minor child could not be charged with a criminal offense or civil wrong. The Early Church did not allow for corporal punishment of any kind, as Christ was believed to have abolished both capitial and corporal punishment on the cross.

Attachment parenting was the norm in ancient Hebrew and Christian societies alike. Parents in ancient Israel and adjoining churches were a safe place for children to let out all their energy, and be rambunctious in their playfulness. Children were very quiet and self-controlled when in public, many times sedated while in mother's arms or else wrapped to her back. Parents allowed most all play except play that would lead to overt sex acts, as children then were sexually aware at an early age. Mant games children played in ancient Judeo-Christian society had sexual undertones. Children then did not wear clothing until adulthood, meaning they went completely in the nude, and the girls may have flirted a bit with the boys - but that was as far as it was allowed to go. Hebrew and (especially) Christian parents believed in sexual purity, thus wanted to avoid an incursion on their daughter's virginity.

The context in this article can be applied today, to the degree that the individual parent or set of parents can apply. Children obviously should be clothed in public, at least visibly. But, children should not be forced to wear clothing indoors, and neither should they be forced to wear undergarments. If a pedophile or other adult attracted to children likes them, that's their issue to deal with - and many Hebrew and Christian fathers were attracted to their children, especially as they got older, but at a low level that didn't involve any children with the attraction (the accepted parenting advice was to indulge in child fantasy!). Nudity is not sex, as people can be naked for various different reasons. We sexualize it due to our flawed human nature, but some of us men can refrain from sexual relations even when seeing full frontal nudity of a woman with ease.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, whsich is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! There is a grand investigation to find Satan and put him in his tomb, but we must sweep up all his accomplices first, which is anyone that hates Christ, hates God, and sins against him. Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!

Pro-social friendship: Why parents should be friends with their children

Many parents in America think it is not acceptable or appropriate to be your child's friend. The attitude towards children is one of "I am your parent, not your friend". However, God's Law commands parents to be the friend of their child.

Every single parent and adult is guilty in relation to children, and is deserving of DEATH and DESTRUCTION merely for existing in relation to children, and are to be meek and shamefaced in relation to children, prioritizing one's child above oneself, to the point of selfless and dutiful submission to one's child from above, with children resting below, not worrying about anything, with parents sacrificing for their child in the spirit that Christ sacrificed for His children, with children then resting in said sacrifice. See Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable rest in the love and grace of parents, with children and parents being friends. Attachment parenting was the norm in biblical times, with children wrapped up in the nude next to the bosom of mothers, in skin-to-skin closeness, with this many times lasting into adulthood, with older children alternating between free play and closeness to parents. Children were weaned then at around age 3.

The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to provocations to anger, as defined as the slightest of personal offenses perceived by the child, with this being intended by the Apostle Paul to prohibit all punitive parenting, including punishment and control such as spanking and other forms of corporal punishment. The Apostle Paul here was rebuking Greek Christians for misusing Scripture to justify their pagan custom of spanking children, namely the book of Proverbs. All seven passages in Proverbs are repealed verses, as they refer to a specific, dated legal punishment - the 40 minus 1 lashes with the rod of correction. Such was not practiced in the Early Church, and when children were whipped or otherwise abused, usually a divorce decree was officiated and the abusive parent was excommunicated from the church.

Children should be best friends with their parents, and vice versa. Children should be able to tell parents anything and everything under the sun, and not expecting punishment or reprisal of any kind. Talking to a parent should feel as refreshing as going to confession when you have done wrong, and like chatting with your best friend other times. Sure, there are going to be rough patches and bickering in your relationship with your child, but once it's patched back up, it's all good. The goal in any parent-child friendship should be mutual cooperation, with the burden of proof being on the parent.

Communication in homes in ancient Judeo-Christian culture was open and honest in nature, with children demanding and petitioning for their needs and a redress of grievances, with children being attached to their parents in a policing manner, policing their parents as to their needs, otherwise simply leaning on parents to tell them whatever is on their mind. For children in biblical times, parents were their best friend, and safe place for refuge and safety.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! We as Christians are a part of a grand investigation into Satan's accomplices, and that includes all child abusers. I am called by my Lord to judge all parents and all adults in relation to children. Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand! 

Why behavior is communication: Understanding children's behaviors from a biblical perspective

Many people think disciplining children includes carrot and stick methods, namely punishments and rewards. However, children are complex human beings, with complex wants, desires, and needs. Children have a reason for behaving the way they do.

Children in biblical times were not the most docile type of child. They were demanding in nature, petitioning for their needs and a redress of grievances. What did Hebrew parents know that we don't? Children's behavior was seen as communication. 

Every single parent and adult is guilty in relation to children, and is deserving of DEATH and DESTRUCTION merely for existing in relation to children, with parents especially being meek and shamefaced in relation to children, leading to prioritizing one's child's needs and wants above your own, to the point of selfless and dutiful submission to children from above, with children resting below in the love and grace of parents. It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers here to rest in the love and grace of parents. This rest allowed children to demand and petition for needs and a redress of grievances. Why did children behave in a defiant or problematic way then? Same as now - they need to communicate. Parenting in ancient Judeo-Christian culture were attachment parents, meaning they wrapped their children close to them in swaddling blankets, and breastfed children until age 3. 

The Greek root word translated "obey" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and refers to provocations to anger against children, as defined as the slightest of offenses perceived by a child, which included in the time of the Apostle Paul, and throughout the legal context of the Bible, any punishment and control of children, including corporal punishment such as spanking and whipping. Paul here was rebuking Greek Christians who were misusing Scripture, namely the verses in Proverbs, to justify their pagan custom of spanking children, with the Apostle Paul trying to put a stop to the trend in the church communities he oversaw as a deacon. Behavior in children was seen then as vulnerable attempts to communicate a need.

Children cry, scream, whine, and show aggression for one reason - to communicate. Behavior in children is communication, and the idea is not to modify the behavior, but to listen to it and respond to it, determining what the child needs. A child's world is just as complex as ours, but they don't have the words to communicate what they need, and so they cry, and they pout, and they whine. Furthermore, children are more driven out of impulse to act out to get what they need. This was known to parents in biblical times, as they followed their instincts in parenting, and thus saw childhood behaviors as communication, and sought to diagnose the need of the child, based off of the child's stated wants. Usually, what a child wants is what they need, in some way and some form.

Usually, children state their needs outright, especially as they get older, but in indirect ways. Demands for toys or a bicycle at a store may be a plea for attachment with a parent, as the goodies would come from the parent, and the child would associate YOU with the item they received, thanking you even if they couldn't.

Being a child is like fighting through fog, trying to communicate a need, and falling short every time, feeling defeated in the end. What is worse? Nobody cares what you need in the adult world. They stonewall you, and then point to each other to promote each other as "the adult" to listen to. Getting your emotional and attachment needs met especially was an uphill battle for me as a child.

The depraved and entitled parents will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Let them descend into everlasting Hell and torment, suffering God's Wrath for all eternity! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!