Parenting your pedophilic child: Understanding pedophilia in children

Many people hate pedophiles. This is a common hatred amongst American parents. However, most people who hate pedophiles don't understand what, or rather who, a pedophile actually is. If anyone truly understood who a pedophile is, they wouldn't hate them at all. A pedophile is not a narcissist, but instead an individual with child-centered autism. 

What is a pedophile? It is a myth that all pedophiles are narcissists, meaning they have something to hide. A pedophile, in most cases, has an immature form of autism where the age-oriented sexual preferences of the individual correspond with their developmental immaturity. Most pedophiles have an autistic specialty in children in terms of knowledge and social skills. A pedophile is a parallel parent, in policing format, meaning they seek to protect and nurture children who aren't theirs, keeping the parents in line. Pedophilia serves a proper biological purpose in this regard, as parents are bound to punish and abuse children due to the original sin of mankind. It is in the pedophile's nature to nurture every child they meet, and most of the time, pedophiles center their sexual drive for children so that their sexual attractions to children aren't an issue. 

Most individuals with autism are cold as a rock in terms of nurturing, due to poor social skills. If your autistic child is a born nurturer, and is a boy, think pedophile, but don't jump to conclusions until they disclose to you. Make room for your pedophilic child to disclose their disorder to you, by leaving out smoke signals that "you can tell me anything, and I will never stop loving you". All a pedophile needs is someone to talk to about their condition, and the rest they can center themselves.

Pedophilia is a DSM-5 diagnosis, and is the most stigmatized of all DSM-5 entries. The hatred of pedophiles comes in the form of help entitlement towards pedophiles, in the form of a "cure" that isn't so, because it will never be so. Parents, as well as the professionals they extend into their children's lives, force fake "cures" down the throat of a pedophile. For example, some therapists force pedophiles to wear rubber bands and then snap them every time they "look at a child out of lust". The theory is that if sexual thoughts about children are punished like that, they go away due to the aversive association. But, pedophilia comes in the form of a sexual preference, so it isn't going away, and usually, sex offenders who happen to be pedophiles think they are cured. 

The core of the hatred of pedophiles is religious child abuse, usually based on several passages in the Bible, which are being misused to oppress pedophiles. See Matthew 5:27-28 KJV:

Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath already committed adultery with her in his heart. 

The Greek root word translated "lust" is επιθυμέω (Latin: epithumeo) and refers not to ordinary sexual desire, or even sexual desire towards children. This word chiefly refers to sexual entitlement when in the Hebraic context. Sexual entitlement is defined as, officially speaking, sexual want, to the point of sexually motivated approach. Therefore, it is okay and, in fact, the right thing to do for pedophiles to masturbate to child fantasies.

Pedophiles have a collective parent trauma, and that is because most all of us were abused by parents, in some way, in some form. Most parents can tell if their child has pedophilia as a mental health condition, or not, and from there, most parents try to punish their children for indulging in masturbatory fantasies of children, with this being known as sexual shaming abuse. This is how most pedophiles develop a parent trauma. Most of us pedophiles see parents as the enemy. The "persecution complex" most pedophiles have? Think more along the lines of PTSD from a parent abuser. In most all of these cases where pedophiles were abused by parents, the parents called themselves Christians. 

I myself was abused by parents, but not for being a pedophile. In some cases, the disclosure of pedophilia to parents is so shocking that it turns punitive parents into gentle parents, with this being the new norm in many gentle parenting families. I myself was shielded from the stigma by my parents, and the fact that I turned out to be a pedophile made them second guess their punitive authoritative methods of parenting. However, I am well aware that many pedophiles were abused by their parents for many reasons, with one big reason being that they were a pedophile and the parents figured it out. In those cases, the parents thought the child had a condition very different from what the nature of the condition actually is.

All your pedophilic child needs from you is someone to talk to. They also need to be allowed to indulge in masturbatory fantasy about children. The discussion about the condition serves to help the pedophile sort out their disorder, and from there, find a way to cope on their own. Pedophilia is something that easily be hid just by not talking about it.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke their pedophilic children to anger through punitive parenting will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them forever be cast into the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death prepared for Satan and his accomplices! Repent!