Differentiating between predatory and benign pedophiles

Many people think that all pedophiles are either sex offenders or bound to become sex offenders. This is a common belief amongst American adults. Most American adults hate pedophiles, while not knowing what the disorder is. Pedophilia is a paraphilic disorder involving a primary or exclusive sexual preference for children under age 14. Yes, this condition does exist, and it is not the same condition that a sexual offender of children has. 

3 out of 4 pedophiles choose not to sexually abuse children in North America. What about the 1 in 4 that do abuse children sexually? I am among the 1 in 4 abuser pedophiles. I am an obvious abuser. An obvious abuser has not internalized that certain forms of sexual harassment or stalking behavior is morally reprehensible. Usually, including in my case, it is an autistic fixation about a specific child where the abuser makes their sexually entitled feelings obvious, in a way that procures or offends the child. I myself, like most obvious abusers, victimized myself by appearing in vulnerable form in front of parents, using my autistic vulnerability to show good intentions that weren't there. An obvious abuser is also a vulnerability abuser in most cases. 

The obvious abuser is more common in pedophile-accepting countries such as Canada and Germany. Most pedophilic sex offenders in the United States are power and influence abusers. A power and influence abuser has bought into the concept of adult power and control, meaning they use their glorified title of "adult" as a token of power. From there, the power and influence abuser entraps the child into accepting rape or sexual assault, after coming down on them from all sides, trying to move the child like a chess piece from point A to point B. 

Most pedophiles have not internalized what it means to be "the adult" in relation to children, and interact on the level of children. This is because the bulk of pedophiles have a form of immature autism where the age-oriented sexual preferences of the individual with autism corresponds with their developmental immaturity. These individuals are the last people to abuse a child, in any way. They are more likely to be victims of crime and abuse, including sexual abuse. Most child abuse committed against pedophilic children comes in the form of religious child abuse, and that religious child abuse is where the hatred of pedophiles originates. 

Pedophilia is a male nurturing instinct, and is best used once the pedophile's sex drive is centered. A pedophile is a parallel parent, in policing format. The role of pedophiles, in terms of evolution, is to correct parents who abuse children, and take their children into their care. In the Early Church, certain church deacons would, after both parents of an abused child were excommunicated, take in the orphan child, without asking for anything in return from the child. Any sex with children was clearly prohibited under the Law, and so caregivers of children couldn't barter for sex. 

Whenever you see a pedophile clearly accept their adult role in relation to children, think abuser. Most pedophiles are more likely to be permissive parents. They don't want to hurt the child's feelings, so they don't set limits with their children. Most pedophiles, however, can find a happy medium as gentle parents, and thus aren't abusers of children. Most sexual abuse is committed by non-pedophiles, usually fathers who repress their sexual desires towards their daughters. 

The depraved and decadent, defiled sex offenders who offend or procure children sexually will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them descend into torrents of Hell-fire! Repent!