Many parents say that children should respect parents, and that children owe them respect. This is a common abusive belief among all adults in this country, and one that continues to subjugate children. The fact of the matter is that parents do not deserve respect. It must be earned.
Every single adult is guilty for their existence in relation to children, and is deserving of nothing but DEATH and DESTRUCTION merely for existing in relation to children. Only a few American parents comply with God's Law on parenting, and the rest will be tormented forever and ever in Hell.
The Greek root word that denotes parental entitlement is πλεονέκτης (Latin: pleonektes) and refers to not only wanting things, but wanting them to the point of seeking to impose said want on a child, leading to theft/abuse. Entitlement in parenting is demanding "I am the parent, and I deserve respect". The moment you defend that entitlement.
It says in Ephesians 6:1-4
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor thy father and mother, as this is the first commandment with promise; May it be well with thee, and thou mayest live long upon the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, lest they become discouraged.
The Greek root word "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to a child resting securely in care and support of parents, owing nothing in return, with your child receiving everything they need, including attachment needs (ex. walk in the park, etc), without needing to give back to parents, but nonetheless complying with parental directives because they trust parents. This word denotes more what the parent should do. The idea is to be a best friend, a pal, to your child, albeit their more mature and responsible friend, but with you being an enemy of a child, just as mankind is the enemy of God, and must reconcile through atonement, with parents reconciling themselves with their children through atonement, meaning verbal and non-verbal apology, with "non-verbal apology" means not harming the child again, or else trying not to in any discernable way.
Parents are friends of their children, but cannot possibly assume solely on their own head knowledge what their child needs. We as adults no longer remember what it is like to be a child. "Enemy" refers to collective individual guilt, meaning we all have adults have abused children, by God's standards, and have been since the beginning of time, with things actually getting worse.
Parenting in ancient Israel was attachment-based in terms of orientation, with the Greek root word "nurture" being παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to co-regulation, meaning centering one's entitled attitudes and controlling aggression towards children in a way that makes it safe for them to open up about any issue, in the form of pro-social pedophilia, in siphon format, meaning parents channeling their children's excitement and rambunctiousness to the presence of parents, by acting as a friend to confide in. The Greek root word translated "admonition" is νουθεσία (Latin: nouthesia) and refers to setting boundaries, usually in the negative - think the word "no", and nothing but trust in parents to back it up. This concept is weighed by the Greek root word παροργιζο (Latin: parorgizo) and refers to child abuse defined under Divine Jurisprudence, meaning damages, meaning the slightest of personal slights against a child. Appropriate limit setting is like when a friend asks to borrow your car, to say "no, I need it to get to work" and because you earned a friendship with your friend, that boundary being set does not tear apart the friendship in any way.
Parenting was attachment-based in ancient Hebrew culture, meaning children remained close to mother until late in childhood. There was no spanking during that time. Corporal punishment was judicial in nature in ancient Israel, or not at all. Parents didn't demand respect, but were non-violent enough to earn closeness to children, meaning snuggling with mom, being held on her back in a papoose bag, and so forth. Punishment was only allowed as a sentence for a crime, and never involved physical violence in the Early Christian churches.
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