Most parents and adults in this country abuse children, usually physically to impose worry on their children, known as "worry" narcissism. This is because of a misunderstanding of what abuse is, according to this country's Christian family values, which prohibit all use of force and entitlement in parenting. Adults remain the number one source of child abuse in this country, with various mental health diagnoses motivating abuse (ex. mood disorders, developmental disorders, paraphilic disorders).
It says in Ephesians 6:4 KJV:
And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
The Greek root word translated "provoke not...wrath" is παροργιζο (Latin: parorgizo) and refers to damages imposed on a child through parent or adult behavior, namely the slightest of personal slights perceived from an adult by a child. Thus, whatever the child victim perceives in terms of sensory input is abuse, unless apologized beforehand meaning the opposite for the infraction.
How would it be determined that something is child abuse, in a moral legal context? Every moral crime has a component, guilty intent (mens rea) and/guided by guilty action (actus reus). Suppose a young girl is struck across the face, and is crying. I, as a bystander, would witness the abuse, meaning the child's fearful expression. The girl may plead "stop being mean". Once the parent asserts their "rights" to punish their child, they become entitled, and any moral crimes of entitlement are deadly, meaning moral sins, meaning punishable by the fire of Hell, as God gave up on such depraved and wicked parents.
What is a proper upbringing? The Greek root word παιδεία (Latin: paideia) and refers to self-discipline and self-control in relation to children, in exemplary format, in the form of co-regulation. This is rendering yourself as a parent to be controlled and stoic, but in a warm and listening format, reflectively listening to the child's every need and concern, leading to the centering of the child next to the parent, and the parent being centered and disciplined in the Lord first, before the child receives that warm, loving discipline, education, and listening. Parents did set limits and boundaries, but only to the level of saying "no" and reassuring the child for the loss they suffered, and the Greek root word παιδεία (Latin: paideia).
God hates every single adult for their existence to children, because surely every single adult has posed a threat or menace to children sometime in their life. God hates the punishment of children. Parenting in ancient Hebrew culture was attachment-based (as were many ancient cultures), meaning children regularly slept next to mothers, and stayed near her wherever she went, instinctively ranging themselves besides her. Punishment was only permitted within a court of law, and in the Christian church, striking a child could lead to divorce, and then possibly excommunication from the Christian churches of God...Christian parents were forbidden by church ordinance from punishing their children, as children were instead in providing custody, meaning care and attention of loving, attached parents.
Send them all to jail, and arrest them all. All the punitive parents. All the authoritative parents. Here's for Christian family values, as violence and entitlement are not family values, and spanking children is both, as the entitled and abusive act that it is.
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