Friday, May 7, 2021

Everyone's worried about Max (and not the child)

 Many here are of the opinion that I am not feeling well mentally. That isn't quite the case, meaning I am not feeling depressed as of late, but rather subdued and calm. Sometimes, I look down when passing a child closeby, and that is a visible sign of my humble and understated attitudes towards them, which are learned qualities that I think are good...Understatement is something I value, especially in relation to children.

I feel more like I don't have anything to say, so I say nothing and enjoy the scenery and quietness, thinking my own thoughts. 

Children's rights trauma is about the term "children's rights" popping out at you. I have been advocating my parental rights trauma in place of another - children's rights trauma, with affirmative application. "Affirmative action" means a necessity to use that term on my own space. Apparently, people think the religious beliefs I adhere to are the abuse. They aren't because I don't conflate them with punishment.

Matthew is a traumatic peacekeeper, meaning he has a traumatic peacekeeper that he is projecting onto others in a controlling way, by way of window gaslighting concerning things I say.

I was not raised with religion. Religion existed around me, like curtains, but never shoved in my face as something I felt obligated to partake in. My whole family basically said that they would be happy with whatever I chose in terms of beliefs, as long as it harmed none. My mother is a progressive Christian, Matthew, and she sees no problems with my beliefs. My beliefs do allow disrespect to the point of lashing out, yet don't technically because the respect my mother has shown me convicts me at the lowest level to respect her, and honor her...I may have tried to use a wide choke-hold restraint to sit her down, with her then hearing the ACTUAL events, but she insisted otherwise, and actually wished death on me in a way that appeared to be gaslighting and not herself. The main feeling there wasn't anger but strong concern for my mental heath. I chalk it up to a co-victim. Jonathan would text her at just the wrong time, when she was stressed, and she has the profile of major depressive disorder (MDD). I keep telling my mom not to take his advice. He's not a nice survivor, and not all of them are (she's the one to give us the benefit of the doubt, even when the individual isn't deserving).

I'm fine. In fact, I'm fine enough to advocate for my own help if I need it. Children's rights helps as a resource bin, and that's it. The rest I delegate to my therapist and other mental health professionals. Children, however, are kept on the fringes of society, with no voice in the public sphere. Banning spanking is just the start. Then, we give them the right to vote, because the government should not be making such distinctions. Like, seriously, how often has anyone been scarred for life just for casting their first ballot. Come on, now. We have an age of consent to prevent trauma, and even that isn't high enough. With voting, its a whole different ballgame - legalize it all, down to age 0. That's how I feel about children's rights...Give her her civil liberties, the right way. Children have civil liberties, too.

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