Friday, February 26, 2021

Pro-social guilty conscience, pro-social self-hatred: Why parents should hate themselves

Many parents defend the notion that they are "good parents", and think they have rights in that regard. Parents have no rights, and never did in God's eyes. We anti-spankers put the parents down, after a pedophile proudly surrendered vital clinical information to survivors. The reward for him in terms of trauma awareness - bring back anti-spanking awareness. I'd preferrably like how it is done in biblical times - hang 'em up by blood, then nail 'em.

I am guilty merely for existing in relation to God, with the child as His extension, extended to me for providing custody in the case of a caregiving situation, and care and protection. I, as an adult, am deserving of absolutely nothing from a child. Zilch. Nada. I am to earn a relationship or friendship with a child, or else be shoved on the peripheries, and shunned for my mere adult status.

It says in Revelation 21:8 KJV:

But the fearful, and unbelieving, and abominable, and murders, and whoremongers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.

The Greek root word translated "fearful" is δείλός (Latin: deilos) and refers to a bad form of guilty conscience around a child, where you are afraid of a child "snitching" on you. To put this into perspective, most sexual predators in the United States target teenagers, usually teenager girls. Think a shady guy trying to run away with a 13-year-old girl, but she doesn't see the dangers due to her immaturity, and wants a power imbalance due to said immaturity. When that guy is confronted, he often shakes and is like "Uh, um. I wasn't...there" and then he blows up, creates a hostage situation, and makes a list of names.

The Greek root word that instead illustrates the fear that God commands parents to have in relation to children is ψοβός (Latin: phobos) and refers to reverent terror, fear, and dread of your own sin nature in relation to a child, hating oneself and loving one's child, selflessly, judicially, and lawfully, as a servant to children, accepting one's place as second-rate to child. It is a terror and shriek that subsides once you know your actions or inactions benefit the child...I avoid children, by default, and it is like being put in my place, like a soft smash from a crane that is comforting, until the child invites me to be her friend, in which case healthy friendship (preferably supervised) is welcoming.

All adults, by default, are marked for deletion merely for their existence in relation to children, with said parents/adults being in full selfless and judicial submission to the every vulnerable need of a child of a child, as her enemy, just as mankind is the enemy of God, and is to answer to God's Law, with said jurisprudence literally being replaced by the child's needs (Col. 3:21; Eph. 6:4). Adults are the enemy of every child, and are deserving of annihilation and erase for their entitled, wicked nature that God hates with a vengeance, but loves the parent or caring adult struggling against said nature. Love for a child is selfless, blind servitude towards that child, symbolizing Christ's sacrifice for His children.

The depraved and entitled parents in our society who punish, control, spousify, or coddle children, will not inherit the Kingdom of God. I am guilty of the latter two, in the past.

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