Many times, parents speak to other parents/adults for advice about "Am I doing a good job",and society coddles these parents with praise. Nope, lock 'em all up, because they have no rights. I am told by many adults to start forgiving myself for abusive acts committed against children. No, THEY give me permission. I think they have too.
A child is not a naive little "creature" to go up to an adult, trusting said adult blindly. Children are righteous judges, in the form of pro-social covert narcissism. Their abuser, us adults, are bigger them, and so they judge lower, yet higher, at the time. I see the world similarly.
It is in the nature of adults to seek support from other adults as to a child in their care or providing custody. However, I don't believe other adults are a good source of advice as to what is abuse and what is not. The child decides whether I am safe or not.
I was born with an inherently depraved and entitled adult nature in relation to children, and am deserving of DEATH and PUNISHMENT in relation to children. A child is to be the one to ultimately "break the ice" and deem me someone safe enough to engage in casual conversation with.
I am beholden to the child, and only to the child. Nihil child. Only the child can tell me who safe they really feel about me. I am going to put myself down in a righteous way until the individual child direct tp me that such treatment is unnecessary, and then we can chit-chat and hang out.
I heed nobody blindly on children's rights by the American child constituency and her needs from me and society. Children first, adults last.
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