Saturday, January 30, 2021

Pro-social pedophilia, pro-social listen/admit, pro-social shelter: What is this most biblical method of gentle parenting

 Many parents believe that the Bible condones for or even commands corporal punishment. It is a myth that children were spanked in biblical times. This is far from the truth. Spanking and punishment of children were banned under Jewish law. Instead, parenting was attachment-based in the biblical context, and of a specific type - pro-social pedophilia.

What is pro-social pedophilia? No sexual attraction to children is pro-social, in the sense that it is something to celebrate. Pro-social pedophilia refers to the peacekeeping aspect of gentle parenting - a domiciliary peacekeeper, of the listening and inviting type. Pro-social pedophilia is the purest form of both gentle parenting and biblical parenting in general.

Pro-social pedophilia is an anti-entitlement concept, based on the doctrine of mutual submission. Parents are not high authority figures under biblical law, but instead are servants and bondslaves to their children and their every need. Christian love, in the Bible, is denoted by the Greek root word αγαπαο (Latin: agapao), and refers to submission and subjection to a child's every need, in the form of indentured servitude, driven by reverent fear (GRK: ψοβός), with said Greek word referring to the same kind of fear that keeps you from saying something to insult your spouse or friend. This concept is denoted in Colossians 3:20 KJV:

Children, obey your children in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. 

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to complete surrender to parents, in the form of secure attachment and trust. In the biblical context, boldness in children, including emotional expression towards parents in a domestic setting, was seen as a sign of trust and respect for parents. The concept is that if you can be yourself around parents, share emotions with them, and share things that most people would find unacceptable. It is a wall between public and private; the outside and the outside in. Children get out all their energy and exuberance in the home, with supervision, so that they are calm and docile in terms of personality when they leave the house, headed to the supermarket with mom. The kids that are quiet and disciplined in nature, with their parents disciplining themselves in exemplary format. It says in Hebrews 12:11 KJV:

Hebrews 12:11 KJV:

Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

The Greek root word translated "chastening" is παίδεια (Latin: paideia) and refers to a specific form of discipline, based on the acknowledgement that one is inherently evil, with the Greek root word translated "grievous" being λυπέ (Latin: lupe). This refers to Christian non-entitlement, namely living against the word πλεονέκης (Latin: pleonektés) and refers to not only wanting things from a child, but wanting things from said child target to the point of seeking to impose said item onto a child, leading to abuse/theft. I myself live by the children's rights code, around children and in other vicinities - avoidance of entitlement leading to theft, with damages from abuse/theft defining abuse until intent leading to said abuse is explained otherwise. 

In this case, it is funneling a child's energy into a family home, by allowing children to be free in terms of themselves in the family home. This means they can scream, and shout, and run around the house all they want, and a parent has to just deal with it. I myself might have a daughter that would wear just a shirt (if that much?), and I would have to deal with it. This funneling is guided by a nurturing, sheltering, and protective example of Christian parents.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger through punitive or permissive parenting, meaning not gentle parenting, are marked for deletion by God, and will be tormented on their last day, and on these last day. They will be cast into the ever-burning lake of fire and brimstone, suffering the second death! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!

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