Providing custody: What are it's contents?

Many parents think having children means owning them as property, or having them as extensions. Providing custody might ring a bell it shouldn't to some survivors of child sexual abuse, whom had that term used against them as a temporary state. It is a personal state, and has nothing to do with that type of providing.

It says in Colossians 3:20-21 KJV:

Children, obey your parents in all things, as is well-pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger lest they become discouraged.

The Greek root word translated "obey" is υπακουο (Latin: hupakouo) and refers to secure, vulnerable trust and rest in love and grace of parents, with children being able to be themselves in relation to parents, being able to tell them and share with them everything about your life, not fearing any punishment or reprisal, owing absolutely nothing in return to parents, but nonetheless with children showing gratitude and thanksgiving for their parents by heeding their example and teachings. The Greek root word translated "provoke...to anger" is ερεθιζο (Latin: erethizo) and literally translates to "stirring up" anger and resentment in a child, or else upset, referring to "stirring the pot", which all literally literally to the offenses under the legal context of the Bible, meaning theft under the Eighth Commandment, where the slightest of offense perceived by a child is considered theft from your neighbor to some degree, thus child abuse.

There is one thing to keep in mind here. Every single adult is guilty by way of existing in relation to children, with adults knowing nothing about children except how wrong they were for being abusers of children as adults. Parents and adults are to be struck by God, mirrored by the child, with how wrong and how ignorant they were to their child's oppressed and abused state, imposed at least partially by them, leading to surrender to God through one's child, giving up adult power and control at the child's footstool, doting on them as if they were royalty, sacrificing for children as Christ did for His children, taking up the cross for their children in the spirit that Christ did for His children, leading to good works for the sake of doing good works for children, as is Christian love for children, as denoted in the New Testament by the Greek root word translated αγαπαο (Latin: agapao). Love for a child sees the child as autonomous, but vulnerable, meaning the "least of these" extended by God to be cared for, or else. Love is surrendering to the child's needs, not questioning the needs presented by their child by their righteous demands.

The idea is that children demand, and parents supply, with parents paying due penance for their adult guilt, being an indentured servant to one's child, righteously enslaved at God's order, allowing for any tone in children demanding and requesting their needs, no matter how "rude" or "disrespectful". Pro-social pedophilia, pro-social siphon, meaning the child's energy is siphoned into a home setting, or else the presence of parents. In biblical times, children outside the house were very quiet and reserved, in a meek way, but when their mother in particular showed up, they lit up with joy, and could easily just be called back by a parent. Parents were seen as time-slaves from above for their children, paying due penance for the moral crime of existence in relation to the "least of these", including children.

The depraved and entitled parents who provoke children to anger will not inherit the Kingdom of God! Let them burn and suffer in the lake of fire and burning sulfur, which is the second death, which is Satan's final resting place! Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand!